CRYSTALS TO HEAL THE HEART & MIND

Healing Crystal Index for Emotional & Mental Topics

Crystals can encourage positive thoughts & feelings. But they do not replace professional mental healthcare. You deserve to be happy & peaceful. Please use wisdom when considering crystal therapies.

Abuse

Healing from cruelty:
Angelite

Healing from emotional abuse:
Agate (Apricot), Calcite (Honey), Carnelian, Obsidian (Mahogany), Quartz (Strawberry), Rose Quartz

Healing from physical abuse:
Agate (Apricot), Calcite (Honey), Opal (Pink) 

Healing from sexual abuse:
Jasper (Red), Opal (Pink), Quartz (Strawberry), RhodochrositeSerpentine, Tiger’s Eye (Red),

Healing from verbal abuse: 
Aragonite (Blue and Brown), Obsidian (Mahogany), Rose Quartz

Acceptance

Being realistic and compassionate: 
AmetrineCharoite, Calcite (Mangano)Petrified WoodRhodoniteRose Quartz

Being realistic and kind to ourselves:
Agate (ApricotBotswana and Moss), Lapis Lazuli, Obsidian (Black), PetaliteRose Quartz, Sodalite (Sunset)TurquoiseVariscite

Responding to change gracefully:
AmberAzuriteBariteCharoiteChiastoliteDanburiteDioptaseGalena, Jasper (Desert), LarvikiteLepidoliteMoonstoneVariscite

Action

Feeling motivated:
Cavansite, Garnet (Spessartine), Jasper (Desert), Lepidolite, Morganite (Peach), Prehnite EpidoteRubyZoisite

Positive Actions:
BronziteCarnelianCinabriteDiopside, Jade (Green), OnyxPietersiteSeptarian NoduleVanadinite

Productive Actions:
Aventurine (Yellow)Chlorite Quartz, Jade (Purple)OnyxPreseliShattuckiteVanadinite

Standing up for what we believe is right: 
Barite, Calcite (Orange)CarnelianCinabritePyriteRubySodalite, Tiger Iron, Tourmaline (Multicolored),

Taking action now:
Aventurine (Red and Yellow)CitrineHowliteRuby

Wise actions: 
Agate (Turritella), AmetrinePreseli

ADD/ADHD  

LepidoliteStilbite

Addiction

Creating healthy habits around food and body/image:
HowliteIdocrase, Obsidian (Mahogany), PrasioliteQuartz (Strawberry)Scheelite LaceVesuvianite

Creating healthy habits around food and emotional comfort:
AtlantasiteHowliteIdocrase, Obsidian (Mahogany), Prasiolite Quartz (Strawberry)Scheelite Lace

Emotional support for substance abuse recovery:
Agate (Apricot), BariteGalenaHematiteLapis LazuliLepidolite

Releasing toxic co-dependency:
FuchsiteLapis LazuliMuscoviteThulite

Adventure: 
Agate (Crazy Lace), Aventurine (all colors), Garnet (Hessonite), PeridotRuby KyaniteRuby ZoisiteThulite, Tourmaline (Green)

Ambition: 
ChrysoberylHowlite, Jasper (Picasso)

Analytical Abilities

Be logical and compassionate:
Chalcedony (Chrome), Citron Chrysoprase, Tanzanite (Prairie)Variscite

Be logical and intuitive:
AmethystMoonstone TourmalineSodalite,  Sodalite (Sunset)

Increasing logical thinking:
Agate (ApricotGray and Turritella), Agatized Coral, ApophylliteAzuriteBorniteChrysoberylCitron ChrysopraseGalenaIdocrase, Jade (BlackGreen and White), Jasper (Yellow)OnyxRuby IoliteSardonyxTiger IronVesuvianite

Understanding the logic of emotional and social intelligence:
Agatized Coral, Eudialyte, Jasper (Yellow)Ruby Zoisite

Anger

Channeling anger productively:
Aventurine (Yellow)Howlite

Processing anger:
Agate (Blue Lace), Aragonite (Red)AzuriteOnyx

Releasing anger:
Agate (Gray), Aragonite (Blue)BariteChlorite QuartzDanburite, Garnet (Uvarovite),  Kyanite, Quartz (Girasol and Strawberry)Prehnite EpidoteRuby-Zoisite, StichtiteZoisite

Anxiety

Anxiety about the future:
Copper, Moonstone (Black), Rutilated Quartz

Anxiety about social situations: 
Chalcedony (Blue)Chlorite QuartzHiddenite

Anxiety support for children:
Tiger’s Eye (Red),

Keeping things in proper perspective:
Amethyst, Jasper (Yellow)

Shake it off: 
Amber, CitrinePeridot, Quartz (Whiskey)

Sooth anxiety:
Amethyst, Chalcedony (Pink), Garnet (Grossularite), Larimar, Moonstone (Peach), MuscoviteOnyxPetaliteStilbiteSugilite, Tourmaline (Green)

Sooth anxiety and depression:
Agate (Botswana), Angelite, Aventurine (Green and Pink), CitrineCopper, Coral (Red)KyaniteLabradorite, Obsidian (Mahogany and Silver Sheen), Peridot, Quartz (Lavender)RhodoniteRutilated Quartz, Sapphire (Blue and Yellow), Tourmaline (Black)

Soothing anxiety and insomnia: 
Amethyst, Jasper (Desert)

Support during and after anxiety attacks: 
Citron Chrysoprase

Support for chronic anxiety:
Tiger Iron

 

Apathy

Apatite

 

Authenticity 

Jasper (Red)

Autism

Charoite

Baggage, Releasing

Agate (Blue Lace), AquamarineGalena, Obsidian (Apache Tear)Sand Dollar FossilTektite

 

Balance (Emotional/Mental)

Balancing our own needs with those of others: 
Ametrine, Chalcedony (Chrome), Jade (White), Jasper (Yellow)

Balancing our work with our personal life: 
Jasper (Yellow)Moonstone Tourmaline, Tourmaline (Black)

Creating balance:
AmazoniteAmetrineDiopside, Jasper (Yellow)Stilbite

Feeling more balanced:
Agate (Gray), AmethystAventurine (Pink), Calcite (Orange), Citron ChrysopraseCopperJasper (Kambamba), Moonstone (all varieties), RhodoniteRuby IoliteSmoky QuartzTurquoise

Finding balance when struggling with depression or anxiety:
AmethystJet, Tiger’s Eye (Gold)

Maintaining balance long term:
Calcite (Orange)Indigo Gabbro

Returning to balance: 
Chinese Writing Stone, Obsidian (Snowflake)

 

Behavior (Negative)

Breaking our own bad habits:
AmethystApophylliteDumortierite, Jade (White)Sugilite

Responding appropriately to other people’s bad behavior: 
Howlite

Understanding why bad behavior occurs:
AmethystApophyllite

 

Beliefs (Non-spiritual)

About how the world works:
Opal (Pink), Tiger’s Eye (Red)

About money and success: 
Scheelite Lace

About ourselves:
Chrysoprase, Obsidian (Mahogany)QuartzRubyRuby FuchsiteRutilated QuartzScheelite LaceShungite,

About other people:
Quartz, Tiger’s Eye (Red),

About sex: 
Rutilated Quartz

Creating new beliefs:
Selenite (Orange),

 

Betrayal

Healing after being betrayed:
Agate (Gray), Moonstone (Peach), RhodochrositeScheelite Lace

Trusting other people: 
Agatized Coral, Chalcedony (Pink)LarvikitePrehnite, Quartz (Blue)

Trusting our judgement: 
InfiniteLarvikiteTurquoise

 

Bipolar Disorder

LepidoliteStilbiteTiger Iron 

 

Blame

Assign blame appropriately:
Hawks Eye, Moonstone (Peach),  Shattuckite

Taking responsibility:
ApophylliteNuummite

 

Boundaries

Maintaining:
AmazoniteAmethystCalcite (Green),  Cat’s EyeCitrineEudialyteKunziteQuartz, Quartz (Girasol), ShattuckiteTiger IronVesuvianite

Setting:
Amazonite, Aventurine (Yellow), Calcite (Green)CitrineInfinite, Jade (Purple and White)MuscoviteQuartzSerpentine, Tourmaline (Pink)

Calm

Calm Down:
Agate (Blue Lace), AquamarineHowliteMoonstone (all varieties), Opal (Blue), RhodoniteRuby IoliteSapphire (all colors),

Feel Calm:
Agate (Gray), Apophyllite, Aragonite (Brown and Red)Atlantasite, Aventurine (Pink)Barite, Chalcedony (Chrome), ChalcopyriteChiastoliteChrysanthemum StoneChrysocollaDumortierite, Fluorite (Blue), Garnet (Uvarovite), Hawks EyeIoliteJade (all colors), KyaniteLepidoliteObsidan (all varieties), Opal (Pink), Petrified Wood, Quartz (Girasol), Ruby KyaniteSeleniteSeptarian NoduleSodaliteStilbiteTourmaline (Black)Variscite,

Stay calm during stressful situations:
Agate (Botswana), BismuthChrysocolla, Coral (Red), Garnet (Almandine and Andradite), Jasper (Kambamba and Yellow), KunziteLabradoritePrehnite, Quartz (Blue and Whiskey), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen),  Tiger Iron, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Tourmaline (Black)Vatican Stone

 

Centered

Feeling centered (general):
Aragonite (Brown and Yellow), BorniteCarnelianDiopside, Jasper (Desert), Moonstone Tourmaline, Obsidian (Mahogany)PetalitePietersite, Quartz (Blue)

Heart-centered:
Aventurine (GreenPink and Red) ChrysopraseFuchsite, Jade (Purple), MoldavitePrasioliteRhodoniteRose QuartzRuby IoliteRuby Zoisite, Tourmaline (GreenPink and Red),

In your power-centered:
Shungite, Tourmaline (Black)

 

Challenges

Rise up to challenges: 
Agate (Moss), Aventurine (Red)AzuriteBloodstone, Garnet (AlmandineGrossularite and Hessonite), Jasper (Red), Larvikite, Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Petrified WoodSugilite, Tourmaline (Black)TurquoiseZoisite

Seeing new opportunities: 
Dumortierite, Jade (Purple), Quartz (Blue), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen)

 

Change

Accepting changes:
AngeliteGalenaSerpentine

Adapting to change with ease:
BismuthChinese Writing StoneCitron Chrysoprase, Obsidian (Black and Rainbow), Petrified Wood,

Encouraging:
Agate (Crazy Lace), AmberAmethystBariteCharoiteCinabriteDiopside, Garnet (Hessonite), IdocraseIndigo Gabbro, Obsidian (Mahogany)PietersiteRubyRuby FuchsiteShattuckiteVesuvianite

Support when change feels scary:
Serpentine

 

Chaos

Riding out the storm peacefully:
Agate (Tree), Jasper (Desert), Opal (White)

Taking charge and bring back order:
Fluorite(all colors), PietersiteSeraphinite

 

Clarity

AmethystCinabriteDragonstoneDumortieriteFluorite (all colors), Garnet (Almandine), Jasper (Desert and Ocean)KyaniteLapis LazuliMoldavite, Obsidian (BlackSilver Sheen and Snowflake), Opal (White), Quartz (Tangerine)StilbiteRuby KyaniteSuper Seven, Topaz (Blue),

Closure

InfiniteLarvikiteRuby Kyanite,

Codependency, release: 

Agate (Apricot), FuchsiteLapis LazuliMuscovite

Commitment

To our romantic partner:
Emerald

To promises we’ve made to ourself:
Aventurine (Red), Garnet (Andradite)

To our responsibilities:
Bronzite

Communication

Being a good listener:
Agate (Blue Lace), Chalcedony (Blue), ChrysocollaDiopside, Fluorite (Blue)HowliteKyaniteLapis LazuliScoleciteSeptarian NoduleShattuckiteTanzanite

Between parents and children: 
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace)

Communicate clearly:
Aquamarine, Aragonite (Yellow), AzuriteCavansite, Chalcedony (Blue), Chinese Writing StoneChrysocolla, Fluorite (Blue)HowliteKyaniteLapis LazuliPreseli, Quartz (Blue), Septarian NoduleSodalite, Topaz (Blue)

Communicate diplomatically: BronziteRuby KyaniteTanzanite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold)

Communicate lovingly:  
BronziteChrysocollaLarimarRuby KyaniteStichtiteTanzanite

Difficult discussions: 
Aragonite (Yellow), BronziteAmethyst, Calcite (Green), Cat’s Eye, Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Ruby IoliteRuby KyaniteShattuckiteTurquoise

Nonverbal communication: 
Howlite, Jasper (Mookaite)Kyanite

Public Speaking:
ChrysocollaCinabrite, Topaz (Blue)

Writers:
Calcite (Blue), Cavansite, Chalcedony (Blue and Pink)Chinese Writing StoneCinabrite, Garnet (Spessartine), Jasper (Desert), Larimar, Opal (Blue), Quartz (Strawberry), Shattuckite, Topaz (Blue)Vanadinite

Compassion 

For others: 
Angelite, Aragonite (Blue), AtlantasiteBuddstone, Calcite (Mangano), ChrysopraseDioptaseEmeraldHowlite, Jade (Purple), KunziteLarimarRhodochrositeRhodoniteRose QuartzSodaliteTanzanite, Tourmaline (Pink), Turquoise (Green)Variscite

For yourself: 
Aragonite (Brown), Calcite (Mangano), Chrysanthemum StoneCitron Chrysoprase, Lapis LazuliLarimar, Obsidian (Apache Tear)PrasioliteRose QuartzStichtiteVariscite

Confidence

Feeling confident:
Aragonite (Yellow), Aventurine (Green and Red)ChrysoberylCitrineDragonstone, Garnet (Uvarovite), Jasper (BumblebeeKambamba and Red), Labradorite (Golden)LarimarLarvikiteMuscoviteOnyxPreseliPyriteRhodochrositeRuby (all varieties), Sunset SodaliteSunstoneTiger’s Eye (all colors), Tourmaline (all colors), UnakiteZoisite

Gaining or regaining confidence:
Agate (Apricot, Botswana and Dendritic), Aventurine (Pink),  BismuthChinese Writing StoneCinabriteCitrineEpidoteIndigo Gabbro, Quartz (Tangerine)RhodochrositeRhodonite

Releasing self-doubt:
AngeliteChiastolite, Jasper (Rainforest)Lepidolite, Turquoise (Green)

Confusion

Clearing up confusion (general):
AngeliteAquamarineCarnelianCavansiteFluorite (all colors), Kyanite, Sapphire (Blue),

Clearing up emotional confusion: 
BariteJet, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Quartz (Tangerine)Variscite,

Clearing up mental confusion: 
Apatite (Blue)Shungite

Control

Gain or regain control of your life:
AmetrineAzuriteBloodstoneCharoiteChrysoberylDragonstoneFluorite (all colors), Indigo Gabbro, Jasper (OceanLepidolite, Obsidian (Mahogany), ScoleciteSerpentineTiger IronTourmaline (all colors),

Have control over your emotions and responses:  
Aventurine (Pink)Bronzite, Calcite (Gold)Citron Chrysoprase, JetLabradoriteLapis LazuliLarvikite, Obsidian (Golden Sheen)Onyx, Quartz (Girasol), Sapphire (Blue)Sardonyx,

Support for when something is outside your control:
Aventurine (Yellow)BariteCharoite, Jasper (Ocean), Obsidian (Mahogany), Ruby Zoisite,

Cooperation 

Agatized CoralBuddstoneEmerald, Garnet (Grossularite), Quartz (Snow)Smoky QuartzStichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)

Courage

Be brave enough to do what needs to be done:
BloodstoneCharoiteDumortieriteSunset SodaliteThulite

Be brave when you are scared: 
Agate (Apricot and Fire)AmazoniteAzurite, Aventurine (Green), BariteBloodstone, Calcite (Honey), CarnelianCharoiteChiastoliteDumortierite, Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Nuummite, Opal (Pink)PietersitePreseliPyriteSugiliteSunstoneThulite

Courage and compassion:
Barite, Calcite (Green), Chrysanthemum Stone, Garnet (Almandine), MerliniteMorganitePietersiteRhodonite, Tourmaline (Pink), Turquoise (Green)Variscite

Courage and resiliency:
CharoiteCinabrite, Garnet (Almandine), Obsidian (Black), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen)

Courage and strength:
Agate (Tree), AmazoniteAmethyst, Aventurine (Green), BloodstoneBronziteCharoiteChiastoliteDragonstoneGalenaGarnet (all varieties), Jaguar Stone, Jasper (BumblebeeLeopardskinRed and Yellow)MoldaviteRhodoniteRubyPyrite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), ThuliteTiger’s Eye (all colors), Tourmaline (Red)Variscite

Courage and wisdom: 
Agate (Fire)AmethystBariteBloodstone, Calcite (Orange), Garnet (AlmandineHessonite), Idocrase Jasper (LeopardskinRed and Yellow)MerliniteTiger’s Eye (all colors), Tourmaline (Pink and Red), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen)

Creativity

Encourage creativity:
Agate (Apricot, Botswana and Fire),  AmberAzurite, Calcite (Blue), Carnelian, Chalcedony (Blue), CopperDiopside, Jasper (Leopardskin), Labradorite (Golden) LarimarLarvikite, Opal (Yellow), Quartz (Strawberry), RhodochrositeRuby (all varieties), Thulite Zoisite

Increase creativity:
Apatite (all colors), Aragonite (Blue)CinabriteFluorite (all colors), LarvikiteMoonstone (all varieties), Sunstone,  Zoisite

Maintain creativity
AmetrineChiastoliteJasper (Desert and Red), Septarian NoduleStilbiteTiger Iron, Tourmaline (Black)TurquoiseVanadinite

Crisis

Mid-life:
Chiastolite,

Support during:
Garnet (Almandine), Jade (Black and Blue)OnyxTiger Iron,

Curiosity: 
Azurite, Calcite (Honey), Chalcedony (Pink)Chrysanthemum StoneChrysocollaCitrineDragonstoneDumortieriteEudialyteFossilized ShellIdocrase, Jade (Purple), Jasper (Red), LabradoriteMerliniteMuscovite, Quartz (Strawberry), Ruby (all varieties), ShattuckiteSeleniteSeptarian NoduleStichtiteTanzaniteThuliteTopaz (all colors), Tourmaline (Multicolored), Vanadinit

Death

Comfort during times of grief:
Aragonite (Brown), Danburite, Jasper (Kambamba), JetLarimar, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Ruby Zoisite

Easing the passing from life to death:
ChiastoliteEudialyteLabradorite, Turquoise (Green)Zoisite

Fear of your own death:
Ruby ZoisiteZoisite

Making peace with death:
Agate (Apricot), CarnelianLabradoriteRuby Zoisite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Zoisite

Decision-Making

About our health:
Aventurine (Pink),  InfiniteSerpentine

About money: 
Cat’s Eye, Garnet (Almandine), Opal (Green)

Adjusting choices based on new information:
Atlantasite, Fluorite (Yellow), Jade (Black and Purple)

Following through with our decisions:
Dragonstone, Sapphire (Yellow)

Making good decisions:
Agate (Dendritic and Turritella), AmetrineApophyllite, Aventurine (Green), CarnelianCitrineEmerald, Garnet (Hessonite), Jade (Blue), Jasper (Ocean), LarvikiteLodestoneObsidian (Rainbow and Silver Sheen), Peacock OreTiger’s Eye (all colors), Vatican Stone

Overcoming indecision:
Bronzite, Calcite (Clear)Jaguar StonePietersiteStilbite

Taking responsibility for choices: 
Jasper (Red)

Trusting we’ve made good choices: 
Aventurine (Yellow)Carnelian, Jasper (Bumblebee), Kunzite (Gold), Lapis Lazuli

Depression

Associated with Bipolar Disorder:
LepidoliteTiger Iron

Associated with PTSD:
Bloodstone, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Associated with physical illness or physical trauma:
Chiastolite

Depression because of a divorce of breakup:
Muscovite

Seasonal Affective Disorder:
Amber, Tiger’s Eye (Gold)Sunstone

Sooth depression:
Agate (Moss), Bloodstone, Calcite (Orange)ChiastoliteChinese Writing StoneEudialyteJetLapis Lazuli, Obsidian (Rainbow), Petrified WoodRhodochrositeScoleciteSmoky QuartzStichtite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Tanzanite (Prairie), Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Sooth depression and anxiety:
Agate (Botswana), Angelite, Aventurine (Green and Pink), CitrineCopper, Coral (Red)KyaniteLabradorite, Obsidian (Mahogany and Silver Sheen), Peridot, Quartz (Lavender)RhodoniteRutilated Quartz, Sapphire (Blue and Yellow)Tourmaline (Black)

Support for chronic depression:
Tiger Iron

See also “Grief”

See also Adrenal Glands and Brain Chemistry in the Physical Healing Index

Determination  

OnyxSardonyxStromatolite

Dignity 

Agate (Tree), Buddstone, Chinese Writing StoneDanburite(Red)Eudialyte, Garnet (Almandine and Uvarovite), Jasper (Ocean), JetLapis Lazuli, Opal (White)Pietersite, PrasioliteScheelite LaceStromatolite, Turquoise (Green)

Discernment 

Buddstone,  EmeraldFluorite (all colors), Howlite, Jade (Purple)Lapis LazuliMuscoviteLodestoneOnyx, Opal (White), Quartz (Tangerine)Sapphire (all colors), SeleniteVariscite

Discipline 

AzuriteChrysoberyl, Jasper (Red), RubySapphire (all colors), Septarian Nodule,

Dreams

Dream interpretation: AngeliteChinese Writing Stone, Jasper (Red)

Dream recall: Jasper (Red), Ruby Kyanite

Having pleasant dreams: Calcite (Honey and Mangano), Stilbite

Lucid dreams: Angelite, Apatite (Blue)BariteRuby Kyanite

Support after a nightmares: Howlite

Disappointment  

Stichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)

Dyslexia 

Sugilite

Effectiveness  

Amethyst,  Calcite (Honey), Jade (White)Kyanite, Opal (Green), Quartz (Snow)

 

Efficiency

Magnesite

 

Ego, reducing 

Agate (Tree and Turritella), Aragonite (Red)ChrysoberylCitron Chrysoprase, Coral (Blue and Red), Jade (White), Opal (Blue and Pink)PetaliteScheelite LaceSeptarian NoduleSuper Seven, Tourmaline (Green and Pink)

Emotions

Ability to endure difficult emotions: Cinabrite, Garnet (Almandine and Spessartine), Indigo GabbroKyaniteLabradorite, Obsidian (Snowflake)ShungiteStromatoliteVariscite

Clearing up emotional confusion:
AngeliteApatite (all colors), BariteCarnelianCavansiteFluorite (all colors), JetKyaniteVariscite

Controlling emotional responses in a healthy manner: 
Azurite, Bronzite, Calcite (Gold)Fluorite (all colors), JetLabradoriteLarvikiteOnyx, Quartz (Girasol)SardonyxSmoky QuartzTiger Iron

Exploring the root cause of our most difficult emotions:
Agate (Blue Lace), Chalcedony (Pink)HematiteMoldaviteMuscoviteRuby, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Feeling emotionally free: 
Aventurine (Green), CelestiteGarnet (all varieties), Lepidolite, Septarian NoduleSodaliteSugiliteSunstoneThulite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Feeling more positive:
Agate (Tree)Amber, Calcite (Blue and Honey)Citrine, Jasper (Bumblebee), Quartz, Zoisite

Feeling safe enough to acknowledge and express emotions: 
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace), Amethyst (Chevron), BariteBuddstoneDanburiteIdocraseJaguar Stone, Jasper (Red), Obsidian (Mahogany)Rhodochrosite, Tourmaline (Pink), Vatican StoneVesuvianite

Feeling understood by other people: 
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace), Chalcedony (Blue), ChiastoliteQuartz (Lavender), Rose QuartzVariscite

Healing emotional wounds and scars:
Apophyllite, Aragonite (Blue and Brown), Moonstone (Peach), Obsidian (Mahogany), RhodochrositeRhodonite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Protection and healing when emotionally exhausted:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Apatite (all colors), EpidotePrehnite EpidoteTurquoise

Releasing negative emotions:
Agate (Dendritic), Aragonite (Blue), Aventurine (Green and Pink), Calcite (Blue), CarnelianChrysocollaCitrine, Garnet (Uvarovite)KyaniteLarimarMoonstone Tourmaline, Obsidian (Apache Tear)Onyx,  PrehniteQuartz, Ruby ZoisiteSardonyx

Staying emotionally neutral and openminded:
Agatized CoralChrysocolla,Coral (Blue and Red), Moonstone Tourmaline, Quartz (Clear), Tourmaline (Black)

Taking responsibility for our emotional reactions: 
AmethystAquamarineHawks EyeGalena Jasper (Yellow)LepidoliteMuscovite, Obsidian (Black), Quartz (Tangerine)SerpentineShattuckite, Tigers Eye (Gold and Red)  

Emotional Intelligence 

Agate (Gray), DumortieriteMoonstone (all varieties), Ruby IoliteScheelite LaceSodalite

Empath

Holding space for others without internalizing: 
MoldaviteMuscoviteRose QuartzSunstone, Turquoise (Blue)

Protection from being overwhelmed by people you love:
Jade (Purple)Rose Quartz

Protection when forced to be around negative people: 
Cat’s EyeJaguar Stone, Tiger’s Eye (Gold)

Empathy 

Aragonite (Blue), Calcite (Mangano), Chalcedony (Pink)RhodoniteRose QuartzThuliteVesuvianite

Empowerment

Amazonite, Aragonite (Red), Aventurine (Red)ChrysoberylCitrine, Garnet (Hessonite), Jasper (Bumblebee and Leopardskin)MoonstoneSunstone,  Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)

Enthusiasm 

AmetrineBismuthMuscovitePyriteRhodochrosite

Extrovert support 

Apatite (all colors), Calcite (Green and Orange), Chrysanthemum StoneIdocrasePeridotPyrite, Quartz (Blue and Whiskey)RhodoniteRubyTektiteVesuvianite

Family

Father Figures:
Garnet (Andradite), Jasper (Red), Labradorite (Golden), Tourmaline (Green), Turquoise (Blue)     

Having realistic expectation of families:
Agate (Blue Lace)

Mother Figures:
Agate (Blue Lace), LarimarRhodochrositeRose Quartz, Turquoise (Green)

Raising children: 
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace),  Fuchsite, Jade (Black and Blue),  Lapis Lazuli

Resolving family conflict:
Agate (Apricot)EudialyteFuchsite, Jasper (Desert and Yellow)Onyx, Tourmaline (Pink)

Staying connected to our family: 
Agate (Apricot and Dendritic) 

Support during times of family stress:
Tiger Iron

Taking good care of our family:
Jade (Green), Petrified WoodRose QuartzScolecite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Understanding family habits and patterns:
Jasper (Mookaite), Obsidian (Black)

Fear

About being inadequate:
Calcite (Honey), Jade (Black), Jasper (Bumblebee and Red)Turquoise

About being misunderstood:
Emerald

About change:
DiopsideSerpentine  

About our basic needs not being met:
Hematite, Quartz (Tangerine)

About public speaking:
Topaz (Blue)

About the future:
CopperPietersiteSerpentineSunstone

About the unknown:
Agate (Moss), Bloodstone, Chalcedony (Pink), ChrysocollaIolite, Jasper (Desert), Quartz (Blue)Rose QuartzRuby IoliteUnakite

Fear causing us to “play small”: 
NuummitePicasso MarbleStichtite

Fear of danger:
Auralite 23, Jasper (Mookaite)Rhodonite, Tourmaline (Black)

Fear of drowning:  
Aquamarine

Fear of failure: 
AmazoniteDragonstoneEmerald, Jasper (Bumblebee and Red)Septarian Nodule

Fear of intimacy:
Cat’s Eye,

Fear of missing out (FOMO): 
Tourmaline (green-black)

Fear of small/tight spaces (Claustrophobia): 
Tourmaline (Green)

Releasing fear in general:
Agate (ApricotFire and Gray), AmazoniteBarite, Calcite (Mangano and White), Chalcedony (Pink)Chrysocolla, Jasper (Picture and RedLepidolite, Obsidian (Golden Sheen), Opal (Blue), Pyrite, Quartz (Blue and Whiskey), Ruby ZoisiteScheelite LaceStichtiteStilbiteSugilite, Tourmaline (Multicolored), Zoisite

Releasing irrational fears and paranoia: 
AzuriteCelestiteKyanite

Speaking up when you are afraid: 
Angelite, Sapphire (Blue)

Understanding our fears: 
Larimar

Flexibility (mental) 

Agate (Tree), Aragonite (Red and Yellow), GalenaMoonstone TourmalineSeraphinite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Forgiveness 

Calcite (Mangano), ChrysoberylDioptase, Obsidian (Apache Tear)RhodoniteRose QuartzStichtite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red) Turquoise (Blue and Green)

Friendship

Attracting new friends:
Aventurine (Green), Garnet (Grossularite), Jade (Green), Ruby, Ruby FuchsiteScolecite,

Celebrating our friendships: 
Barite, Calcite (Orange), Garnet (Grossularite), Obsidian (Rainbow), Rhodonite, Quartz Quartz (Lavender and Whiskey), Rose QuartzRuby, SardonyxScoleciteShiva Lingam

Generosity 

Auralite 23, Calcite (Gold and Honey), Chalcedony (Chrome and Pink),  Garnet (Grossularite and Hessonite), Jasper (Yellow), Opal (Pink)RhodochrositeRuby FuchsiteScheelite LaceThuliteTurquoise

 

Goals

Creating goals:
AquamarineEmeraldRubyRuby FuchsiteRuby Iolite

Focusing on high priority goals:
Hawks EyeShungite

Overcoming obstacles:
BorniteChlorite QuartzChrysoberyl

Staying focused long-term:
AquamarineChrysoberylLodestoneRutilated QuartzSodalite

Gratitude 

Agate (Dendritic), Calcite (Honey)CelestiteCinabriteCradle of Humankind, Garnet (AlmandineAndradite and Uvarovite)HiddenitePeridotRuby ZoisiteSeraphinite, Tourmaline (Green)

Greed, Reducing

Jade (Green and White)Scheelite Lace,

Grief

Releasing grief:
Aragonite (Blue), Aventurine (Pink)BariteBornite, Calcite (Mangano)Epidote, Morganite (Peach), Opal (Blue)Prehnite EpidoteStichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)

Support during: 
Amethyst, Aragonite (Brown)DanburiteDragonstone, Jasper (Kambamba), Merlinite, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany),  Ruby Zoisite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Sugilite

Grounding

Emotionally: 
Agate (BotswanaCrazy Lace, and Gray), Aragonite (Brown)Iolite, Jade (Purple), Jasper (Kambamba), PreseliSmoky Quartz, Tourmaline (Black and Red)

Mentally:
Agate (Gray), Obsidian (Black)PetaliteStilbiteTiger Iron, Tiger’s Eye (Red)

Growth

Emotional:
Aragonite (Red)KunziteLapis Lazuli, Morganite (Peach), Quartz (Girasol)

Mental:
Ruby ZoisiteTektite

Personal growth in general:
Amethyst (Chevron), Aventurine (Green), Calcite (Clear), Chrysanthemum StoneCradle of Humankind, HowliteIolite, Jasper (Red), Nuummite, Quartz (Blue)Sand Dollar FossilVanadinite

Guilt

Related to defying social norms:
Apatite (all colors),

Related to our sexuality:  
Aventurine (Red), Jasper (Red), Tiger’s Eye (Red),

Releasing:
Agate (Dendritic)ChiastoliteCradle of Humankind, Jasper (Red), Larimar, Obsidian (Mahogany), Opal (Green), Quartz (Tangerine)RhodochrositeSapphire (all colors), Sodalite

Survivor’s Guilt:
RhodochrositeRuby

Habits, emotional and mental

Breaking bad habits: 
Agate (Blue Lace), Calcite (Mangano)ChiastoliteFluorite (all colors), Hawks EyeIdocraseKyaniteObsidian (all varieties), Petrified WoodSerpentineShiva LingamSunstone

Improving our habits:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Amber, Apatite (Blue and Green), Calcite (Clear and Green and Honey), CavansiteChrysoberylDumortieriteFuchsiteIndigo Gabbro, Jade (Purple and White), Jasper (Desert and Picture), LepidoliteMagnesitePetaliteRuby FuchsiteRutilated QuartzSeraphinite, SugiliteUnakite,  Variscite

Maintaining healthy habits:
Aventurine (Pink)IdocraseLepidoliteTiger IronVesuvianite

Recognizing our habits:
Agate (Turritella)AmethystApophylliteBuddstoneDumortieriteFluorite (all colors), Fuchsite, Garnet (Hessonite), Indigo Gabbro, Jasper (Mookaite)Lepidolite, Moonstone (Black), MorganiteObsidian (all varieties), PetaliteSugiliteUnakite

Happiness

Be happy and delighted: 
Agate (Crazy Lace), Amber, Apatite (Blue and Green), Aventurine (Yellow), Calcite (Honey)CitrineDioptase, Garnet (Almandine ), Jade (Purple), Jasper (Bumblebee), Kunzite, Opal (Yellow)Peacock OrePeridotPicasso MarbleRuby ZoisiteSeraphiniteStichtiteSunstoneThulite, Tourmaline (Green)

Be happy and empowered:
Agate (Fire), CharoiteChrysoberylCinabriteEpidoteThulite

Be happy and peaceful:
Agate (Dendritic), AmetrineAtlantasite, Calcite (Blue), Chlorite QuartzChrysopraseDioptaseJade (all colors), Moonstone (Black), Opal (Pink)Peacock OrePetalitePrehniteRose QuartzRuby ZoisiteRutilated QuartzScolecite, Selenite (Orange)Shiva LingamStilbite, Tourmaline (Black), Variscite

Cultivate daily and long-term happiness:
Agate (Moss), Cinabrite, Garnet (Almandine), IdocraseIndigo Gabbro, Jasper (Kambamba), LarimarLodestone, Obsidian (Golden Sheen),  Sand Dollar Fossil,

Returning to happiness:
Chrysoberyl, Jade (Purple), Jasper (Kambamba), Obsidian (Rainbow), Opal (Green), RhodoniteRubyRuby Fuchsite,

Harmony

Within a group:
AmazoniteAmetrine, Chalcedony (Chrome), Chrysanthemum StoneChrysocollaDanburite, Jade (Blue, Green and White),  Jasper (Picture), Sapphire (all colors), Seraphinite, Sodalite

Within yourself:
Agate (Gray), AmazoniteAmetrine, Chalcedony (Blue)ChiastoliteChrysanthemum StoneEudialyteIdocrase, Jade (Blue and White)QuartzRuby IoliteSmoky Quartz, Tourmaline (Multicolored), Vesuvianite

Helplessness, Overcoming

AmazoniteCavansiteCopperHawks Eye, Jasper (Leopardskin), Morganite (Peach), RubyVanadinite   

Honesty

With others:
ApophylliteAquamarineAzurite, Calcite (Mangano)Amethyst, Cat’s EyeJaguar Stone, Jasper (all varieties), Quartz (Girasol), SardonyxSeraphiniteSerpentineShattuckiteStilbite, Topaz (Blue), Turquoise (Green)

With ourselves: 
Agate (ApricotBotswana and Gray),  Apophyllite, Aventurine (Red), Calcite (Mangano)Amethyst, Cat’s EyeEpidoteHematite, Jade (Black), Jaguar Stone, Jasper (all varieties), Prehnite Epidote, Quartz (Girasol and Tangerine)RhodochrositeRuby IoliteSeleniteStilbite, Topaz (Blue)

Honor

Bronzite, Chinese Writing Stone, Jasper (Red), Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Sardonyx

Hope

Be hopeful and empowered:
CavansiteCinabriteDragonstone, Garnet (Almandine and Grossularite), Jade (Green and White), Jasper (Desert and Rainforest)MuscovitePietersiteThulite

Be hopeful and grounded:
EpidoteIolite, Quartz (Tangerine)SerpentineUnakite

Be hopeful and happy:
Apatite (all colors), DumortieriteMuscovite, Opal (Blue and Pink), Quartz (Girasol)Ruby ZoisiteSeraphinite, SugiliteSunstoneTopaz (all colors), Zoisite

Be hopeful and peaceful:
CelestiteChrysopraseMagnesite, Quartz (Blue), Seraphinite, Topaz (all colors)

Have hope during difficult times:
Agate (Moss), Apatite (all colors), ApophylliteCharoite, Quartz (Tangerine)Rutilated Quartz

Hostility, Reducing

Chalcedony (Chrome and Pink)

Humility

Agate (Turritella), Aragonite (Yellow), Garnet (Almandine and Uvarovite)KunziteNuummite, Scheelite Lace

Humor

Agate (Crazy Lace), Aventurine (GreenPink and Yellow),  Calcite (Green and Orange), CelestiteCinabriteCitrine, Jade (Purple)StichtiteTanzanite (Prairie),

Hypochondria 

Azurite

Idealism

Sodalite

Imagination

Fluorite (Yellow), Fossilized Shell, Garnet (Almandine)Jaguar Stone, Jasper (Leopardskin and Yellow)LabradoriteMerlinitePicasso MarblePietersitePrehnite EpidotePyrite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Inclusiveness 

Dumortierite

Independence 

BloodstoneCharoiteCinabriteCitrine, Coral (Red)Fuchsite, Garnet (Uvarovite)InfiniteJade (all colors), Ruby FuchsiteRuby ZoisiteSeraphiniteSunstone, Tourmaline (Pink), Zoisite

Inertia, Overcoming 

Aragonite (Red), Calcite (Orange)Cavansite, Opal (Green), PeridotRuby IoliteSelenite, Tourmaline (Pink), Zoisite

Influence

Be protected from the negative influence of others:
Agate (Fire), Amethyst, Calcite (Green), Cat’s EyeCitrineJaguar StoneKyanite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold), Tourmaline (Black), 

Positively influence others:
CinabriteFuchsiteLepidoliteOnyxPetrified WoodSuper Seven

Inhibition (Releasing) 

Garnet (all varieties), Opal (Pink and Yellow)

Insecurity

Muscovite

See also “Anxiety” and “Fear”

Insomnia 

Agate (Blue Lace), AmethystAuralite 23Howlite, Jasper (Yellow),  Lapis LazuliLepidolite, Opal (Green), ScoleciteSodaliteVariscite

Inspiration 

Agate (Fire and Tree), AmethystApatite (all colors), Calcite (Honey)Dumortierite, Jade (Green), MoldaviteMoonstone (all varieties), Quartz (Strawberry), Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Instincts

Improving our instincts:
Bronzite, Obsidian (Golden Sheen and Silver Sheen)

Trusting out instincts:
Agate (Blue Lace), Garnet (Hessonite), Jasper (Mookaite)Picasso Marble, Tiger’s Eye (Red)

Integrity

Agate (Dendritic), AmethystAventurine (all colors), Bloodstone, Calcite (Blue and Orange)ChalcopyriteEpidoteIndigo GabbroMuscovite, Obsidian (Black), Opal (White)Prehnite EpidotePreseliPyrite, Quartz (Girasol), Sapphire (all colors),Scheelite LaceSuper Seven, Topaz (Blue)Variscite

Introvert support 

Calcite (Green), Chalcedony (Pink)MuscoviteStilbiteTiger Iron

Jealousy

Being protected from other people’s jealousy:
Carnelian, 

Releasing our own jealousy:
Agate (Dendritic), Chrysanthemum StonePicasso Marble

Judgement

Judge accurately:
AmethystChrysoberylCitron ChrysopraseEmeraldMuscoviteStichtiteTanzanite

Release worry about other people’s judgement: 
AmazoniteMorganite, Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Opal (Pink)

Sit in non-judgement: 
Agatized Coral, Moonstone (Black), Scolecite

Justice 

AmethystAzuriteBariteCinabriteEmerald, Jasper (LeopardskinPicture and Red)SardonyxSeleniteThulite

Kindness 

Bloodstone, Calcite (Mangano), Chalcedony (Pink)Chrysoprase, Jasper (Ocean), Opal (Pink), RhodoniteRose QuartzScolecite, Turquoise (Blue and Green)

Learning

Encouraging lifelong learning:
AtlantasiteAzurite, Calcite (Green), CinabriteCitrine,  FuchsiteHowlite, Quartz (Blue), SodaliteTektite, Topaz (Blue)

Support when learning something new: 
Fluorite (all colors), Onyx

Working around learning disabilities:
DragonstoneLarvikiteMerlinite

Limitations, releasing 

Auralite 23, Aventurine (Green), MerlinitePetrified Wood, Quartz (Clear)

Logic

Combine logic and creativity:
CarnelianLabradorite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Combine logic with intuition:
Agate (Dendritic), AmazoniteAmethystAquamarine, Calcite (Clear)CelestiteIoliteMerliniteMoonstone (all varieties), SodaliteSunset SodaliteTurquoise,

Combine logic with love:
CinabriteKunzitePrasioliteStichtiteTanzanite (Prairie)ThuliteVariscite

Think logically:
Bronzite, Coral (Red)DumortieriteHematiteIndigo GabbroLepidolite, Obsidian (Rainbow), Onyx, Ruby Zoisite, Sapphire (Blue)Septarian Nodule, Tourmaline (Black)VarisciteVatican StoneZoisite

Loneliness

Bismuth, Garnet (Andradite and Uvarovite), Shiva Lingam,

Love

Attracting new romantic partners:
Agate (Botswana), Charoite, Garnet (Almandine)Larimar, Obsidian (Rainbow), Rose QuartzRubyThulite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Being open to love:
Chalcedony (Chrome), DiopsideMorganite, Opal (Yellow)PetalitePrasioliteRose QuartzThuliteTurquoise

Cultivating self-love:
Cat’s EyeLarimar, Morganite (Peach), Nuummite, Opal (Green), Petalite, Rhodonite, Rose QuartzSerpentineShungite, Topaz (White), Tourmaline (Pink and Red)Vanadinite

Healing after heartbreak:
Aventurine (Pink), Moonstone (Peach), Opal (Yellow)Rhodonite

Keeping romantic love strong and healthy:
Bismuth, Calcite (Mangano)Emerald, Garnet (Almandine), Jasper (Red), Morganite, Opal (Pink)Peacock OreRose QuartzRutilated QuartzSardonyxShiva Lingam,

Knowing when to give “tough love”:
Fuchsite

Letting go of someone we love:
Sunstone

Unconditional love:
CharoiteCitron ChrysopraseFuchsite, Kunzite, PrasiolitePrehniteRhodochrositeRose QuartzThuliteVariscite,

Loyalty 

Agate (Blue Lace), BuddstoneEmerald, Garnet (Grossularite), Jade (Green), Morganite, Opal (Green), RubyShiva Lingam, Tourmaline (Pink)

Lucky

Aventurine (Green and Pink), Chrysanthemum StoneCopper, Jade (Green and White), Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Quartz (Whiskey)Sand Dollar Fossil, Sapphire (Yellow)SunstoneTektiteThulite

Manipulation

Be honest with people:
AzuriteHiddenite, Quartz (Girasol), SerpentineShattuckiteSodalite, Turquoise (Green)

Be protected from manipulation: 
Agate (Dendritic), Agatized CoralApatite (all colors), Jasper (Red), Larimar, Quartz (Tangerine)RhodochrositeSodalite

Martyrdom, Releasing 

AmethystFuchsite, Jasper (Ocean), Quartz (Girasol and Snow)Ruby FuchsiteTurquoise

Maturity

Agate (Gray), Aventurine (Blue)Azurite, Jade (Black and Purple)Lapis Lazuli

Memory

Sharpening memory:
Barite, Chalcedony (Blue)ChalcopyriteCradle of Humankind, DumortieriteEmeraldHowliteLapis LazuliLarvikite, Quartz (Clear)Rutilated Quartz

Unblocking suppressed memories:
ApophyllitePietersite 

Mental

Calming the mind:
Agate (Blue Lace), AmethystChrysoberylHowliteJade (all colors), Jasper (Desert), KyanitePetalite, Quartz (Clear and Snow)ScoleciteStilbiteStromatoliteSuper Seven

Clearing up mental confusion:
Apatite (all colors), AquamarineBariteCarnelianFluorite (all colors), KyaniteOnyxShungite

Creating new mental patterns:
ChiastoliteFluorite (all colors), Obsidian (Mahogany), SeleniteSugilite

Enhancing mental gifts:
DumortieriteFluorite (all colors), MuscoviteShattuckite 

Exploring current mental patterns:
ApophylliteFuchsite, Jade (Green and White), Jasper (Mookaite), LabradoriteOnyxSeleniteSugilite

Having mental discipline:
Aragonite (Brown)Azurite, Jasper (Rainforest and Red), Sapphire (all colors), Septarian NoduleSmoky Quartz

Keeping an open mind:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Aragonite (Blue), AtlantasiteBuddstone, Chalcedony (Blue)Chrysanthemum StoneDanburite, Garnet (Andradite), Jade (Purple), Opal (Pink), Quartz (Whiskey)

Releasing mental blocks:
Jasper (Desert)

Releasing mental stress: 
Agate (Blue Lace and Dendritic), Danburite, Obsidian (Snowflake), Topaz (White)

Mid-life Crisis

Aventurine (Green), Chiastolite, Jasper (Mookaite), Stromatolite

Mind-Body Connection 

Obsidian (Mahogany), Sapphire (all colors), Sugilite

Mistakes

Admitting: 
Aventurine (Yellow)ChrysoberylHematite, Jasper (Yellow)Lapis Lazuli, Quartz (Tangerine)Super Seven, Tourmaline (Black)

Forgiving:
Calcite (Clear)

Seeing the value of mistakes:
ApophylliteDragonstoneFuchsiteMerliniteRuby FuchsiteVariscite

Motivation

Being motivated:
CavansiteSunstoneZoisite

Understanding what really motivates you:
Quartz (Tangerine)

Nature Deficit Disorder

Apophyllite (Green), Jasper (Picture) and (Rainforest)

Needs

Balancing different needs:
Copper, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Getting clear about your needs:
Bismuth, Coral (Blue), KyanitePicasso MarbleSeraphiniteSerpentine, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)

Getting needs met:
Apatite (Green), Chlorite QuartzChrysocollaEmerald, Garnet (Grossularite and Uvarovite)

Healing from neglect: 
Chalcedony (Blue)InfiniteRose Quartz

Understanding other people’s needs: 
AquamarineDiopsideEmerald, Labradorite (Golden)Ruby Iolite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)

Nurture

Others: 
Agate (Blue Lace), AtlantasiteBariteChrysocolla, Jade (Green), Jasper (Ocean), MorganiteRhodoniteRose QuartzRuby

Yourself: 
Chalcedony (Blue and Pink), Jasper (Yellow)LarimarRose QuartzRubySeptarian Nodule

Objectivity 

Jade (Black and Blue)Lapis Lazuli, Quartz (Whiskey)Shungite

 

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Dumortierite, Tourmaline (Black)

See also Thinking

Openness

Open-heart: 
BismuthDanburite, Jade (Purple), Petrified Palm Wood

Open-mind:
AzuriteDanburite, Quartz (Whiskey)

Organization

Be more organized:
AquamarineBuddstoneFluorite (all colors), Ruby KyaniteSeraphiniteStilbite

Prioritize correctly: 
Fluorite (all colors), KyaniteVanadinite

Think logically and linearly: 
Citrine, Jasper (Desert and Yellow), Quartz (Clear)Scheelite LaceVanadinite

Overreacting, Reducing

Chalcedony (Chrome), Hawks EyeMoonstone Tourmaline

Overwhelm, Reducing

Chalcedony (Chrome and Pink)HematiteMuscovite, Quartz (Tangerine)Variscite

Panic 

BismuthDumortierite, Garnet (Almandine), Tourmaline (Green)   

Paranoia 

CelestiteVatican Stone

Passion

Find & follow your passion:
Agate (Fire)AquamarineCopperEpidoteRuby Iolite            

Ignite romantic passion:
Agate (Fire), Aventurine (Pink and Red), Garnet (Almandine), Opal (Yellow)Rose Quartz, RubyRuby FuchsiteRuby Iolite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Past  

Making peace with the past: 
Agate (Gray), :  Aragonite (Yellow), HematiteHiddenite, Moonstone (Black), Obsidian (Apache Tear)Unakite

Healing old emotional wounds and traumas:
ApophylliteMorganiteRhodochrositeRhodonite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Releasing the past and moving forward: 
Agate (Moss), AmazoniteAquamarine, Aragonite (Brown), Aventurine (Green), BorniteCitrineDioptase, Garnet (Almandine), HematiteKyaniteLarvikiteLepidolite, Quartz (Strawberry), Rose Quartz, SeleniteSunstone

Using the past as a guide:
Calcite (Green), Chalcedony (Pink)Hawk’s EyeNuummiteStromatolite

Patience

Be patient:
Agate (BotswanaDendritic, GrayMoss and Turritella), Aragonite (Brown)Atlantasite, CelestiteCitron ChrysopraseDragonstone, Jasper (Ocean), LarvikiteMerlinite, Moonstone (Black), MorganitePetrified WoodScoleciteSeptarian NoduleSerpentineStromatoliteSuper SevenUnakite

Be patient with ourselves:
Aragonite (Brown)Cradle of Humankind, HowliteIndigo Gabbro, Jasper (Ocean), Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Sodalite, Sodalite (Sunset)TanzaniteTiger Iron,

Peace

Be peaceful and relaxed: 
Chalcedony (Blue)ChrysocollaCitron ChrysopraseHowlite, Jasper (Mookaite), KyaniteLarimarMagnesiteScoleciteSeleniteStromatoliteTurquoise,

Be peaceful and happy:
Agate (Dendritic), AmberAmetrineAtlantasite, Calcite (Blue), CelestiteChlorite QuartzChrysopraseDioptaseJade (all colors), Jasper (Desert), Moonstone (Black), Opal (Pink)Peacock OrePetalitePrehniteRose QuartzRuby ZoisiteRutilated QuartzScolecite, Selenite (Orange)Shiva LingamStilbite, Tourmaline (Black), Variscite

Cultivate daily and long-term peace:
Agate (Turritella), ChrysoberylDiopsideIndigo GabbroLarvikiteScheelite Lace

Perception

 Get a new perspective:
Dumortierite, Jade (Blue)Larvikite, Opal (Green),

Keep things in proper perspective:
Agate (Botswana), ChiastoliteDiopsideIoliteLodestoneRuby Kyanite

See the “big picture”:
ApophylliteAzurite Granite (K2), Calcite (Green)CelestiteChrysanthemum StoneHawk’s Eye, Jade (White), Jasper (Picture), Obsidian (Snowflake)Ruby MatrixRuby Zoisite, Sapphire (Yellow)ScoleciteStromatolite, Turquoise (Green)VesuvianiteVatican Stone

Perfectionism: 
Aragonite (Red and Yellow), Calcite (Honey), Chalcedony (Pink), Tourmaline (Green)

Playfulness: 
Agate (Crazy Lace),  Aventurine (Yellow),  Calcite (Orange)Citrine, Jade (Green), Peacock OrePeridot, Quartz (Strawberry and Whiskey), RhodochrositeRuby ZoisiteSand Dollar Fossil, Sapphire (Yellow)StichtiteThuliteVanadinite

Pleasure: 
Aventurine (Red)CavansiteDioptaseEudialyte, Jasper (Leopardskin and Picasso), Obsidian (Snowflake), Opal (Pink)Rose QuartzRubyThulite, Tiger’s Eye (Red)

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) 

Bloodstone, Jade (Black), RubyRutilated Quartz, Tourmaline (PinkPurple and Red)

Practicality

Be practical:
Agate (Dendritic and Turritella), Aragonite (Brown and Yellow), BorniteCat’s EyeCharoiteChrysoberylChrysopraseFluorite (all colors), FuchsiteHematite, Jasper (Red), Quartz (Tangerine)Ruby FuchsiteSapphire (all colors), Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)UnakiteVatican Stone

Take practical action: 
Agate (Turritella), Chlorite QuartzChrysoberylCitrineGalenaHematiteIndigo Gabbro Jade (Purple)Peacock OreShattuckiteTiger Iron, Tourmaline (Black),

Pride

Be humble:
Agate (Turritella), Aragonite (Yellow), Scheelite Lace,

Be proud of yourself:  
Ametrine, Chalcedony (Pink)Dumortierite, Moonstone (Black), Petalite, Tourmaline (Pink)

Problem Solving

Find a more creative solutions:

Iolite

Find practical and positive solutions:
Agate (Gray), Aventurine (Green), Chalcedony (Pink)Citron Chrysoprase, Coral (Red), Jade (Black and Blue), Jasper (Desert), Pietersite, Smoky QuartzStromatolite

Improving problem-solving skills:
AmazoniteBorniteCinabriteDumortieriteIdocrase, Jasper (Bumblebee and Yellow)MuscoviteObsidian (all varieties), Quartz (Clear), RubyRuby Fuchsite, ShattuckiteSmoky Quartz, Sodalite (Sunset)Sunstone

Procrastination 

Calcite (Honey), Jasper (Yellow)

Realistic 

Agate (Blue Lace and Gray), Aragonite (Red and Yellow), DragonstoneLarvikitePetalitePrehnite EpidoteShattuckite

Regrets

Have no regrets:
Cat’s Eye, Garnet (Almandine)Labradorite,

Let go of regrets:  
Aventurine (Green), Garnet (Uvarovite)Hiddenite, Turquoise (Green)

Relationships

Connecting with new people:
Agate (Botswana), Chrysanthemum Stone, , Jasper (Desert), Quartz (Whiskey), Rose QuartzSardonyx

Deepening our connections:
AmethystAquamarineBismuthEmerald, Jade (Green), KunziteMorganite, Opal (Green and Yellow), Quartz (Lavender), Rose QuartzRuby

Having healthy and long-lasting relationships: 
Emerald, Jade (Green), MorganiteRose QuartzRuby FuchsiteSardonyx              

Resolving conflict:
ChrysocollaEudialyte, Jade (Green), Jasper (Desert and Yellow)OnyxSardonyx

Support when spending time with difficult people:
BronziteRuby Iolite       

Relax 

Aventurine (Yellow), Calcite (Green)ChalcopyriteChlorite QuartzChrysopraseDumortierite, Jasper (Desert and Red)MagnesiteMoonstone TourmalineMorganitePeacock OrePetalitePetrified WoodShungiteThulite, Tourmaline (Black)

Reliability 

Aragonite (Brown)

Resentment  

Calcite (Green), Chrysanthemum StoneDanburite, Jade (White), Jasper (Yellow)Picasso Marble, Quartz (Strawberry)Scheelite Lace

Resilience 

Agate (Dendritic), CharoiteCinabrite, Garnet (Almandine), Obsidian (Apache TearBlack and Snowflake), Quartz (Whiskey), Smoky QuartzStromatoliteUnakite

Resolution

ChrysopraseCradle of Humankind, Jasper (Desert), Obsidian (Mahogany)Onyx,

Responsibility

Acknowledge your impact on others:
AquamarineHawk’s Eye, Jasper (Ocean and Red), Quartz (Tangerine)SerpentineVanadinite

Recognize your responsibility and have good boundaries:
Jasper (Yellow), Quartz (Tangerine)Shattuckite,

Take responsibility for your life and live well:
Aventurine (Blue), Calcite (Blue and Gold), CinabriteDioptaseGalena, Jasper (Leopardskin and Red), LepidoliteNuummite, Obsidian (BlackGolden Sheen and Silver Sheen), Opal (Yellow)Septarian NoduleSerpentineStromatoliteVanadinite

Take responsibility for your responses and reactions:
AmethystAquamarineHawk’s Eye, Jasper (Ocean and Red), MorganiteMuscoviteShattuckite,

Romance:

Attracting a new lover:
Agate (Botswana), Aventurine (Pink and Red), Malachite, Obsidian (Rainbow), Rose Quartz, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Nourishing a romantic relationship:
Aventurine (Pink and Red), BismuthCat’s EyeEmeraldMorganite, Opal (Green), Peacock OreRose QuartzSardonyx, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Sad

Comfort when feeling sad:
Chalcedony (Pink),  DanburiteMoonstone (all varieties), Ruby ZoisiteVariscite

Having hope during times of despair:
Agate (Blue Lace), Apatite (Green), CelestiteChiastoliteRuby IoliteRuby Zoisite,

Letting go of sadness:
Agate (Blue Lace and Gray), Quartz (Whiskey)Selenite Sunset SodaliteSunstone

Processing and releasing sadness:
Azurite, Obsidian (Apache Tear)Selenite

Support during difficult times: 
Dragonstone, Obsidian (Apache Tear)Scheelite Lace,

See also Depression, Grief, Hope

 

Safety

Creating a safe space:
ChrysocollaFossilized ShellPrehniteSelenite

Feeling safe:
Agate (ApricotFireTree and Turritella), Aragonite (Yellow), BariteCarnelian, Chalcedony (Pink)ChrysocollaDanburiteGalenaIdocrase, Jasper (Leopardskin and Red), MagnesiteMoonstone & Tourmaline, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Opal (Pink)PetalitePyrite, Tourmaline (BlackPink and Red)

Feeling safe while we do emotional work: 
BuddstoneChalcopyriteDanburiteGalena, Jasper (Picasso), Obsidian (Black), Opal (Pink)Vesuvianite

Rebuilding a sense of security:
Agatized CoralBismuthCarnelian, HematiteLepidoliteRhodochrosite

 

Schizophrenia 

Sugilite

 

Seduction 

Opal (Green), Rose QuartzRuby

 

Self

Accurate self-analysis and knowledge:
Agate (Apricot, BotswanaGray) and Turritella)Azurite, Chalcedony (Chrome), Idocrase, Jade (Black), Labradorite, Quartz (Clear), Thulite

Have more self-awareness:
Cat’s Eye, Chalcedony (Blue)ChiastoliteDioptaseSodaliteSodalite (Sunset), Tanzanite (Prairie), Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)

Healing feelings of being unworthy of good things:
Apatite (Green), BorniteRubySand Dollar Fossil, Selenite (Desert Rose)

Healing self-hatred and self-sabotage:
Calcite (Green)Chrysoprase, Indigo GabbroJetMerliniteRose QuartzTurquoise

Honoring your true self-worth:
ChrysoberylEudialyteFuchsiteHiddenite, Obsidian (Mahogany)PrasioliteRhodoniteRose Quartz

Prioritizing self-care:
Apatite (Green), Auralite 23, Calcite (Orange)GalenaHematiteLodestoneNuummitePetalite, Quartz (Girasol RoseLavender and Tangerine)ShungiteThulite, Tourmaline (BlackPink and Red)

Raising self-esteem:
Agate (Moss), Prasiolite, Selenite (Orange)

Self-expression:
Apatite (all colors)

Strengthening self-respect:
Garnet (AlmandineHessonite and Spessartite), Jasper (Ocean and Rainforest)                                   

See also: Acceptance, Confidence, Control, Discipline, Growth, Limitations, Worth  

 

Self-love        

Demonstrating self-love actions:
Cat’s EyeKunziteNuummite, Opal (Green), SerpentineShungite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red),

Increasing self-love:
Garnet (Almandine), Jade (White)KunziteLarimarPetaliteRhodoniteRose Quartz, Topaz (Blue), Tourmaline (Pink and Red),

Learning or remembering to love and honor yourself:
Garnet (Spessartine), Morganite (Peach), Opal (Yellow), PetaliteRose Quartz, Tourmaline (Multicolored), Vanadinite

 

Sensible 

AmethystBornite, Calcite (Green)EmeraldFuchsite, Garnet Garnet (Almandine and Grossularite), Jade (White), Jasper (Yellow)Lodestone, Quartz (Whiskey)Ruby Fuchsite, Tourmaline (Black)

 

Sensuality

Be sensual: 
Agate (Turritella), Aventurine (Pink and Red), Garnet (Almandine and Spessartine), Moonstone (Peach), Opal (Yellow), Quartz (Girasol), SerpentineShiva Lingam

Release sensual and sexual inhibitions:
Garnet (all varieties), Garnet (Garnet (Almandine and Hessonite), Jasper (Picasso), Obsidian (Mahogany), Rutilated QuartzSerpentine, Tiger’s Eye (Red)

 

Serenity 

Agate (Blue Lace), AmethystAngelite, Aragonite (Red), Chalcedony (Blue), Chlorite QuartzChrysocollaChrysopraseCitron ChrysopraseDanburite, Garnet (AlmandineGrossularite and Spessartine), Jade (all colors), Petrified WoodPicasso MarbleRutilated QuartzSelenite

See also Peace, Tranquility

 

Shame 

Agate (Dendritic), Apatite (Green), Calcite (Green)Cradle of HumankindEudialyteGarnet (all varieties), Jasper (Red), LarimarMerlinite, Opal (Green and Pink), Quartz (Tangerine)RubyRhodochrositeSapphire (all colors), Shiva LingamSodalite

 

Shock 

Obsidian (Black and Snowflake)Rhodonite

 

Shyness 

Barite

 

Simplicity 

DiopsidePrasioliteStilbiteVariscite

 

Sleep

Enjoy peaceful sleep:
ChrysopraseHowlite, Opal (Green), ShungiteSuper Seven

Heal sleep disorders:
Aventurine (Green and Pink)CharoiteMuscovite

Maintain healthy sleep habits:
IdocraseSodaliteTiger Iron, Tourmaline (Green)

See also Dreams

 

Spontaneity 

Agate (Tree)AmberApatite (all colors), Aventurine (Yellow)HiddeniteMoonstone (all varieties), Opal (Blue and Yellow)RhodochrositeRubyRuby FuchsiteThulite

 

Stability 

Agate (Moss), Apophyllite, Aragonite (Blue), Buddstone, Calcite (Orange)Fluorite (all colors), Jasper (Kambamba), Petrified WoodPreseliSmoky QuartzStromatolite,

 

Stagnation 

Aragonite (Brown and Red), Calcite (Orange)Chlorite Quartz, Jasper (Desert), Opal (Green), PeridotRuby IoliteSeleniteZoisite

 

Stamina (emotional/mental) 

Agate (Fire), Calcite (Honey)Dumortierite, Jasper (Desert)Vanadinite

 

Strength

Be strong and brave:
AmazoniteAragonite (Brown and Red), Aventurine (Green), BloodstoneCharoite, DragonstoneGarnet (all varieties)Jaguar Stone, Jasper (KambambaLeopardskin  and Red)RubyThulite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red),

Be strong and resilient:
Agate (Moss), BloodstoneBuddstoneCharoite, GalenaHematite, Jasper (OceanRainforest and Red)OnyxPetrified WoodRhodoniteStromatoliteVariscite

Doing what needs to be done: BloodstoneBronzite, Jade (Green), Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Quartz (Tangerine)Sardonyx,

Survive a difficult time:
Agate (Tree)AmazoniteCat’s EyeCitrinePyrite, Quartz (Strawberry and Whiskey), Rhodonite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Topaz (Blue), Zoisite

Stress

Handling extreme stress:
Opal (Pink and White)Zoisite

Handling long-term stress:
Indigo Gabbro, Jade (Black and Blue), Petalite,

Sooth and release emotional stress:
Calcite (Honey)DanburiteHawk’s EyeLarimarMagnesiteMoonstone (all varieties), Obsidian (Snowflake), Tourmaline (Black)

Sooth and release mental stress:
Agate (Blue Lace and Dendritic), Danburite,

Stubbornness 

DumortieritePietersite

Teamwork 

BariteSodalite

Tenacity 

Agate (Moss), Pietersite

Tenderness  

Chalcedony (Pink)MorganiteRhodochrositeRose Quartz

Thinking

Abstract thinking: 
Calcite (Blue), Chalcedony (Blue and Chrome), Dumortierite

Being open to new ideas:
BismuthBornite, Chalcedony (Blue)ChalcopyriteChrysoberylCitron ChrysopraseCradle of HumankindFluorite (all colors), Garnet (Andradite and Hessonite),  Jade (Purple), Labradorite (Golden)LarvikiteMagnesite, Moonstone (Black), Pietersite, Ruby IoliteSeleniteSuper SevenUnakite

Clear thinking: 
AmethystApophyllite, Calcite (Orange), Fluorite (Blue), Garnet (Almandine),  KyaniteMuscovite, Opal (White), Quartz (Blue)

Common Sense: 
Agate (Apricot), Carnelian, Coral (Blue and Red), Fluorite (all colors), Fuchsite, Garnet (AlmandineGrossularite), JetLarvikite,  Moonstone TourmalineSapphire (all colors), Sodalite (Sunset), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)Vanadinite

Complex thinking:
Agate (Gray), BariteCelestite, Chalcedony (Blue)Citron ChrysopraseDiopsideGalena, Jade (Green), Larvikite, Quartz (Clear), Topaz (Blue)

Creative thinking: 
Agate (Botswana), LarimarPicasso Marble, Quartz (Whiskey), Rhodonite, Sapphire (Yellow)Vanadinite

Critical thinking:
Agate (Gray), Azurite, Fluorite (Yellow), Garnet (Hessonite), Muscovite, Obsidian (Snowflake)Sapphire (all colors)

Holistic thinking:
FuchsiteGalena, Obsidian (Mahogany)Ruby FuchsiteSuper Seven

Logical thinking:
Agate (Apricot and Turritella), AmethystApophylliteAzuriteBornite, Chalcedony (Chrome), ChalcopyriteChiastoliteGalenaJade (all colors), Jasper (Yellow)Moonstone TourmalineOnyxPrasiolitePrehniteRuby IoliteSodalite, Sodalite (Sunset)StichtiteTanzaniteTiger Iron, Tourmaline (Green),

Problem-solving:
BariteIoliteLarimarStromatoliteSunstone, Tourmaline (Green),

Quick thinking:
Muscovite

Seeing the “big picture”:  
BariteChrysanthemum StoneHematite, Jasper (Mookaite and Picture), Obsidian (Snowflake)Pietersite,

Slowing down and thinking things through: 
Agate (Turritella), Moonstone (Black), Petrified WoodStilbite

Stopping repetitive thoughts:
Amethyst (Brandberg), Calcite (Blue), Fuchsite, Jasper (Kambamba), Tourmaline (Black),

Think for yourself:
CharoiteCinabrite,  Zoisite

See also Analytical Abilities, Organization

Tired

Emotionally Tired: 
Agate (Crazy Lace), Apatite (all colors), CitrineEpidotePrehnite Epidote, Quartz (Snow)TanzaniteTurquoise,

Mentally Tired:
Peacock OreVariscite

Tolerance: 
Aragonite (Brown)Citron ChrysopraseJade (all colors), KunziteMagnesite

Tranquility: 
Chrysocolla, Jade (Green), Jasper (Desert)Petalite,

*See also Peace, Serenity

Trauma

Be protected from further trauma:
Chiastolite

Heal from emotional trauma:
Amazonite, Calcite (Mangano)Carnelian, Chalcedony (Blue), Jade (Black), Jasper (Kambamba), KyaniteLarvikiteMorganiteNuummite, Obsidian (Rainbow), Quartz (Lavender and Girasol), RhodochrositeRhodoniteRose QuartzSand Dollar FossilSerpentineTektite, Tiger’s Eye (Red)

Support during traumatic situations:
Chrysoberyl, Obsidian (Black and Snowflake)RhodoniteStichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)

*See also Abuse, Baggage, PTSD

Trust

Trust other people:
Agatized Coral, Chalcedony (Pink)Chlorite Quartz, Opal (Blue), Quartz (Blue), RhodochrositeRhodonite

Trust yourself:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Carnelian, Labradorite (Golden)Prehnite EpidoteSodalite

Truth

Act and speak with integrity:
AquamarineJaguar Stone, Jasper (MookaiteRed and Yellow)SardonyxSerpentineShattuckite

Be honest with others: 
Azurite, Calcite (Mangano)Cat’s EyeJaguar Stone, Jasper (Mookaite), Quartz (Girasol), RhodochrositeSeraphinite, Topaz (Blue), Turquoise (Green),

Be honest with yourself: 
Agate (Botswana and Gray), Aventurine (Red), EpidoteHematite, Jade (Black), Jaguar Stone, Jasper (Mookaite), Quartz (Girasol and Tangerine)Ruby IoliteSelenite, Topaz (Blue)

*See also Discernment

Unconscious mind

Apatite (Green), Jade (Black), LarvikiteRubyRuby FuchsiteRuby IoliteSodalite

*See also Beliefs

 

Unique 

Agate (Botswana), Thulite

 

UNITY 

Agate (Tree)Ametrine, Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysocolla, Jade (BlackBlue and Green), Opal (Pink), RhodoniteRose QuartzRuby IoliteTanzanite

Victim Mentality 

Agate (Dendritic), AmazoniteAmethyst, Apatite (Green), Apophyllite, Calcite (Blue), CinabriteDioptaseFuchsiteIndigo Gabbro, Jasper (Ocean and Red), Quartz (ClearGirasol and Snow)RubyRuby FuchsiteSunstoneThulite

Vulnerability

Daring to be vulnerable:
Agate (Turritella)CarnelianMoonstone (all varieties), Morganite

Support when you feel vulnerable:
GalenaRhodochrosite

Well-Being 

Agate (Gray and Turritella)Apophyllite, Aventurine (Pink), Calcite (Green and Mangano), Chalcedony (Pink), Chlorite QuartzEudialyteHematite, Jasper (Desert and Yellow), Obsidian (Mahogany), Quartz (Tangerine)ShattuckiteThuliteVanadinite

Wisdom

Act wisely:
AmethystBariteBismuthChlorite QuartzChrysoberylCopperDragonstoneFluorite (all colors), IoliteLarvikite, Opal (White)PrasioliteQuartz (Clear)Sapphire (all colors), Tanzanite

 Be Wise: 
AmethystBismuthChlorite QuartzFuchsite, Jasper (Mookaite), Moonstone (Black), Petrified WoodSapphire (all colors), SerpentineTopaz (all colors)

Gain wisdom: 
BuddstoneFuchsite, Jade (Green), Jasper (KambambaMookaite and Ocean), Moonstone (Black), Petrified WoodSapphire (all colors),Turquoise

Love wisely:
EmeraldMorganiteRhodochrositeRose QuartzSugilite

Speak wisely: 
Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Sapphire (Blue)ShattuckiteSodaliteTanzanite

Worry

Release current worries: 
Agate (Gray), Auralite 23, Chalcedony (Pink), CharoiteLepidolite, Tourmaline (Black)

Worry less:
Aragonite (Red), Chalcedony (Pink), EmeraldPetrified Palm Wood, Quartz (Girasol), Rose QuartzSmoky Quartz, Tourmaline (Black)

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