Healing Crystal Index for Emotional & Mental Topics

Crystals can encourage positive thoughts & feelings. But they do not replace professional mental healthcare. You deserve to be happy & peaceful. Please use wisdom when considering crystal therapies.


Healing from cruelty:
Angelite, Obsidian (Apache Tear)

Healing from emotional abuse:
Agate (Apricot), Calcite (Honey), Carnelian, Obsidian (Mahogany), Quartz (Strawberry), Rose Quartz

Healing from close contact with narcissists and enablers:
Angelite, Obsidian (Apache Tear)

Healing from physical abuse:
Agate (Apricot), Calcite (Honey), Opal (Pink)

Healing from sexual abuse:
Jasper (Red), Opal (Pink), Quartz (Strawberry), Rhodochrosite, Serpentine, Tiger’s Eye (Red),

Healing from verbal abuse:
Aragonite (Blue and Brown), Obsidian (Mahogany), Rose Quartz


Being realistic and compassionate:
Ametrine, Charoite, Calcite (Mangano), Petrified Wood, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz

Being realistic and kind to ourselves:
Agate (Apricot, Botswana and Moss), Lapis Lazuli, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Black), Petalite, Rose Quartz, Sodalite (Sunset), Turquoise, Variscite

Responding to change gracefully:
Amber, Azurite, Barite, Charoite, Chiastolite, Danburite, Dioptase, Galena, Jasper (Desert), Larvikite, Lepidolite, Moonstone, Variscite


Feeling motivated:
Cavansite, Garnet (Spessartine), Jasper (Desert), Lepidolite, Morganite (Peach), Prehnite Epidote, Ruby, Zoisite

Positive Actions:
Angelite, Bronzite, Carnelian, Cinabrite, Diopside, Jade (Green), Onyx, Pietersite, Septarian Nodule, Vanadinite

Productive Actions:
Aventurine (Yellow), Chlorite Quartz, Jade (Purple), Onyx, Preseli, Shattuckite, Vanadinite

Standing up for what we believe is right:
Angelite, Barite, Calcite (Orange), Carnelian, Cinabrite, Pyrite, Ruby, Sodalite, Tiger Iron, Tourmaline (Multicolored),

Taking action now:
Aventurine (Red and Yellow), Citrine, Howlite, Ruby

Wise actions:
Agate (Turritella), Ametrine, Preseli


Dumortierite, Lepidolite, Stilbite


Creating healthy habits around food and body/image:
Angelite, Howlite, Idocrase, Obsidian (Mahogany), Prasiolite, Quartz (Strawberry), Scheelite Lace, Vesuvianite

Creating healthy habits around food and emotional comfort:
Angelite, Atlantasite, Howlite, Idocrase, Obsidian (Mahogany), Prasiolite, Quartz (Strawberry), Scheelite Lace

Emotional support for substance abuse recovery:
Agate (Apricot), Barite, Galena, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Lepidolite

Releasing toxic co-dependency:
Fuchsite, Lapis Lazuli, Muscovite, Thulite

Agate (Crazy Lace), Aventurine (all colors), Garnet (Hessonite), Peridot, Ruby Kyanite, Ruby Zoisite, Thulite, Tourmaline (Green)

Chrysoberyl, Howlite, Jasper (Picasso)

Analytical Abilities

Be logical and compassionate:
Chalcedony (Chrome), Citron Chrysoprase, Tanzanite (Prairie), Variscite

Be logical and intuitive:
Amethyst, Moonstone Tourmaline, Sodalite, Sodalite (Sunset)

Increasing logical thinking:
Agate (Apricot, Gray and Turritella), Agatized Coral, Apophyllite, Azurite, Bornite, Chrysoberyl, Citron Chrysoprase, Galena, Idocrase, Jade (Black, Green and White), Jasper (Yellow), Onyx, Ruby Iolite, Sardonyx, Tiger Iron, Vesuvianite

Understanding the logic of emotional and social intelligence:
Agatized Coral, Eudialyte, Jasper (Yellow), Ruby Zoisite


Channeling anger productively:
Aventurine (Yellow), Howlite

Processing anger:
Agate (Blue Lace), Aragonite (Red), Azurite, Onyx

Releasing anger:
Agate (Gray), Angelite, Aragonite (Blue), Barite, Chlorite Quartz, Danburite, Garnet (Uvarovite), Kyanite, Quartz (Girasol and Strawberry), Prehnite Epidote, Ruby-Zoisite, Stichtite, Zoisite


Anxiety about the future:
Copper, Moonstone (Black), Rutilated Quartz

Anxiety about social situations:
Chalcedony (Blue), Chlorite Quartz, Hiddenite

Anxiety support for children:
Tiger’s Eye (Red),

Keeping things in proper perspective:
Amethyst, Jasper (Yellow)

Shake it off:
Amber, Citrine, Peridot, Quartz (Whiskey)

Sooth anxiety:
Amethyst, Chalcedony (Pink), Garnet (Grossularite), Larimar, Moonstone (Peach), Muscovite, Onyx, Petalite, Stilbite, Sugilite, Tourmaline (Green)

Sooth anxiety and depression:
Agate (Botswana), Angelite, Aventurine (Green and Pink), Citrine, Copper, Coral (Red), Kyanite, Labradorite, Obsidian (Mahogany and Silver Sheen), Peridot, Quartz (Lavender), Rhodonite, Rutilated Quartz, Sapphire (Blue and Yellow), Tourmaline (Black)

Soothing anxiety and insomnia:
Amethyst, Jasper (Desert)

Support during and after anxiety attacks:
Citron Chrysoprase

Support for chronic anxiety:
Tiger Iron




Jasper (Red)



Baggage, Releasing

Agate (Blue Lace), Aquamarine, Galena, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Sand Dollar Fossil, Tektite

Balance (Emotional/Mental)

Balancing our own needs with those of others:
Ametrine, Chalcedony (Chrome), Jade (White), Jasper (Yellow)

Balancing our work with our personal life:
Jasper (Yellow), Moonstone Tourmaline, Tourmaline (Black)

Creating balance:
Amazonite, Ametrine, Diopside, Jasper (Yellow), Stilbite

Feeling more balanced:
Agate (Gray), Amethyst, Aventurine (Pink), Calcite (Orange), Citron Chrysoprase, Copper, Jasper (Kambamba), Moonstone (all varieties), Rhodonite, Ruby Iolite, Smoky Quartz, Turquoise

Finding balance when struggling with depression or anxiety:
Amethyst, Jet, Tiger’s Eye (Gold)

Maintaining balance long term:
Calcite (Orange), Indigo Gabbro

Returning to balance:
Chinese Writing Stone, Obsidian (Snowflake)

Behavior (Negative)

Breaking our own bad habits:
Amethyst, Apophyllite, Dumortierite, Jade (White), Sugilite

Responding appropriately to other people’s bad behavior:

Understanding why bad behavior occurs:
Amethyst, Apophyllite

Beliefs (Non-spiritual)

About how the world works:
Opal (Pink), Tiger’s Eye (Red)

About money and success:
Scheelite Lace

About ourselves:
Chrysoprase, Obsidian (Mahogany), Quartz, Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Rutilated Quartz, Scheelite Lace, Shungite,

About other people:
Quartz, Tiger’s Eye (Red),

About sex:
Rutilated Quartz

Creating new beliefs:
Selenite (Orange)


Healing after being betrayed:
Agate (Gray), Moonstone (Peach), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Rhodochrosite, Scheelite Lace

Trusting other people:
Agatized Coral, Chalcedony (Pink), Larvikite, Prehnite, Quartz (Blue)

Trusting our judgement:
Infinite, Larvikite, Turquoise

Bipolar Disorder

Lepidolite, Stilbite, Tiger Iron


Assign blame appropriately:
Hawks Eye, Moonstone (Peach), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Shattuckite

Taking responsibility:
Apophyllite, Nuummite


Amazonite, Amethyst, Calcite (Green), Cat’s Eye, Citrine, Eudialyte, Kunzite, Quartz, Quartz (Girasol), Shattuckite, Tiger Iron, Vesuvianite

Amazonite, Aventurine (Yellow), Calcite (Green), Citrine, Infinite, Jade (Purple and White), Muscovite, Quartz, Serpentine, Tourmaline (Pink)


Calm Down:
Agate (Blue Lace), Aquamarine, Howlite, Moonstone (all varieties), Opal (Blue), Rhodonite, Ruby Iolite, Sapphire (all colors),

Feel Calm:
Agate (Gray), Angelite, Apophyllite, Aragonite (Brown and Red), Atlantasite, Aventurine (Pink), Barite, Chalcedony (Chrome), Chalcopyrite, Chiastolite, Chrysanthemum Stone, Chrysocolla, Dumortierite, Fluorite (Blue), Garnet (Uvarovite), Hawks Eye, Iolite, Jade (all colors), Kyanite, Lepidolite, Obsidan (all varieties), Opal (Pink), Petrified Wood, Quartz (Girasol), Ruby Kyanite, Selenite, Septarian Nodule, Sodalite, Stilbite, Tourmaline (Black), Variscite,

Stay calm during stressful situations:
Agate (Botswana), Angelite, Bismuth, Chrysocolla, Coral (Red), Garnet (Almandine and Andradite), Jasper (Kambamba and Yellow), Kunzite, Labradorite, Prehnite, Quartz (Blue and Whiskey), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Tiger Iron, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Tourmaline (Black), Vatican Stone


Feeling centered (general):
Aragonite (Brown and Yellow), Bornite, Carnelian, Diopside, Jasper (Desert), Moonstone Tourmaline, Obsidian (Mahogany), Petalite, Pietersite, Quartz (Blue)

Aventurine (Green, Pink and Red), Chrysoprase, Fuchsite, Jade (Purple), Moldavite, Prasiolite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Ruby Iolite, Ruby Zoisite, Tourmaline (Green, Pink and Red),

In your power-centered:
Shungite, Tourmaline (Black)


Rise up to challenges:
Agate (Moss), Aventurine (Red), Azurite, Bloodstone, Garnet (Almandine, Grossularite and Hessonite), Jasper (Red), Larvikite, Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Petrified Wood, Sugilite, Tourmaline (Black), Turquoise, Zoisite

Seeing new opportunities:
Dumortierite, Jade (Purple), Quartz (Blue), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen)


Accepting changes:
Galena, Serpentine

Adapting to change with ease:
Bismuth, Chinese Writing Stone, Citron Chrysoprase, Obsidian (Black and Rainbow), Petrified Wood

Agate (Crazy Lace), Amber, Amethyst, Angelite, Barite, Charoite, Cinabrite, Diopside, Garnet (Hessonite), Idocrase, Indigo Gabbro, Obsidian (Mahogany), Pietersite, Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Shattuckite, Vesuvianite

Support when change feels scary:
Angelite, Serpentine


Riding out the storm peacefully:
Agate (Tree), Jasper (Desert), Opal (White)

Taking charge and bring back order:
Fluorite (all colors), Pietersite, Seraphinite


Amethyst, Cinabrite, Dragonstone, Dumortierite, Fluorite (all colors), Garnet (Almandine), Jasper (Desert and Ocean), Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Moldavite, Obsidian (Black, Silver Sheen and Snowflake), Opal (White), Quartz (Tangerine), Stilbite, Ruby Kyanite, Super Seven, Topaz (Blue)


Infinite, Larvikite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Ruby Kyanite

Codependency, release:

Agate (Apricot), Fuchsite, Lapis Lazuli, Muscovite


To our romantic partner:

To promises we’ve made to ourselves:
Aventurine (Red), Garnet (Andradite)

To our responsibilities:


Being a good listener:
Agate (Blue Lace), Angelite, Chalcedony (Blue), Chrysocolla, Diopside, Fluorite (Blue), Howlite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Scolecite, Septarian Nodule, Shattuckite, Tanzanite

Between parents and children:
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace)

Communicate clearly:
Aquamarine, Aragonite (Yellow), Azurite, Cavansite, Chalcedony (Blue), Chinese Writing Stone, Chrysocolla, Fluorite (Blue), Howlite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Preseli, Quartz (Blue), Septarian Nodule, Sodalite, Topaz (Blue)

Communicate diplomatically: Angelite, Bronzite, Ruby Kyanite, Tanzanite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold)

Communicate lovingly:
Angelite, Bronzite, Chrysocolla, Larimar, Ruby Kyanite, Stichtite, Tanzanite

Difficult discussions:
Angelite, Aragonite (Yellow), Bronzite, Amethyst, Calcite (Green), Cat’s Eye, Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Ruby Iolite, Ruby Kyanite, Shattuckite, Turquoise

Nonverbal communication:
Angelite, Howlite, Jasper (Mookaite), Kyanite

Public Speaking:
Chrysocolla, Cinabrite, Topaz (Blue)

Calcite (Blue), Cavansite, Chalcedony (Blue and Pink), Chinese Writing Stone, Cinabrite, Garnet (Spessartine), Jasper (Desert), Larimar, Opal (Blue), Quartz (Strawberry), Shattuckite, Topaz (Blue), Vanadinite


For others:
Angelite, Aragonite (Blue), Atlantasite, Buddstone, Calcite (Mangano), Chrysoprase, Dioptase, Emerald, Howlite, Jade (Purple), Kunzite, Larimar, Rhodochrosite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Sodalite, Tanzanite, Tourmaline (Pink), Turquoise (Green), Variscite

For yourself:
Angelite, Aragonite (Brown), Calcite (Mangano), Chrysanthemum Stone, Citron Chrysoprase, Lapis Lazuli, Larimar, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Prasiolite, Rose Quartz, Stichtite, Variscite


Feeling confident:
Aragonite (Yellow), Aventurine (Green and Red), Chrysoberyl, Citrine, Dragonstone, Garnet (Uvarovite), Jasper (Bumblebee, Kambamba and Red), Labradorite (Golden), Larimar, Larvikite, Muscovite, Onyx, Preseli, Pyrite, Rhodochrosite, Ruby (all varieties), Sunset Sodalite, Sunstone, Tiger’s Eye (all colors), Tourmaline (all colors), Unakite, Zoisite

Gaining or regaining confidence:
Agate (Apricot, Botswana and Dendritic), Aventurine (Pink), Bismuth, Chinese Writing Stone, Cinabrite, Citrine, Epidote, Indigo Gabbro, Quartz (Tangerine), Rhodochrosite, Rhodonite

Releasing self-doubt:
Angelite, Chiastolite, Jasper (Rainforest), Lepidolite, Turquoise (Green)


Clearing up confusion (general):
Angelite, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Cavansite, Fluorite (all colors), Kyanite, Sapphire (Blue)

Clearing up emotional confusion:
Angelite, Barite, Jet, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Quartz (Tangerine), Variscite,

Clearing up mental confusion:
Angelite, Apatite (Blue), Shungite


Gain or regain control of your life:
Ametrine, Azurite, Bloodstone, Charoite, Chrysoberyl, Dragonstone, Fluorite (all colors), Indigo Gabbro, Jasper (Ocean) Lepidolite, Obsidian (Mahogany), Scolecite, Serpentine, Tiger Iron, Tourmaline (all colors),

Have control over your emotions and responses:
Aventurine (Pink), Bronzite, Calcite (Gold), Citron Chrysoprase, Jet, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Larvikite, Obsidian (Golden Sheen), Onyx, Quartz (Girasol), Sapphire (Blue), Sardonyx

Support for when something is outside your control:
Aventurine (Yellow), Barite, Charoite, Jasper (Ocean), Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Ruby Zoisite


Agatized Coral, Buddstone, Emerald, Garnet (Grossularite), Quartz (Snow), Smoky Quartz, Stichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)


Be brave enough to do what needs to be done:
Bloodstone, Charoite, Dumortierite, Sunset Sodalite, Thulite

Be brave when you are scared:
Agate (Apricot and Fire), Amazonite, Azurite, Aventurine (Green), Barite, Bloodstone, Calcite (Honey), Carnelian, Charoite, Chiastolite, Dumortierite, Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Nuummite, Opal (Pink), Pietersite, Preseli, Pyrite, Sugilite, Sunstone, Thulite

Courage and compassion:
Barite, Calcite (Green), Chrysanthemum Stone, Garnet (Almandine), Merlinite, Morganite, Pietersite, Rhodonite, Tourmaline (Pink), Turquoise (Green), Variscite

Courage and resiliency:
Charoite, Cinabrite, Garnet (Almandine), Obsidian (Black), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen)

Courage and strength:
Agate (Tree), Amazonite, Amethyst, Aventurine (Green), Bloodstone, Bronzite, Charoite, Chiastolite, Dragonstone, Galena, Garnet (all varieties), Jasper (Bumblebee, Leopardskin, Red and Yellow), Moldavite, Rhodonite, Ruby, Pyrite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Thulite, Tiger’s Eye (all colors), Tourmaline (Red), Variscite

Courage and wisdom:
Agate (Fire), Amethyst, Barite, Bloodstone, Calcite (Orange), Garnet (Almandine, Hessonite), Idocrase Jasper (Leopardskin, Red and Yellow), Merlinite, Tiger’s Eye (all colors), Tourmaline (Pink and Red), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen)


Encourage creativity:
Agate (Apricot, Botswana and Fire), Amber, Azurite, Calcite (Blue), Carnelian, Chalcedony (Blue), Copper, Diopside, Jasper (Leopardskin), Labradorite (Golden), Larimar, Larvikite, Opal (Yellow), Quartz (Strawberry), Rhodochrosite, Ruby (all varieties), Thulite, Zoisite

Increase creativity:
Apatite (all colors), Aragonite (Blue), Cinabrite, Fluorite (all colors), Larvikite, Moonstone (all varieties), Sunstone, Zoisite

Maintain creativity
Ametrine, Chiastolite, Jasper (Desert and Red), Septarian Nodule, Stilbite, Tiger Iron, Tourmaline (Black), Turquoise, Vanadinite,



Support during:
Garnet (Almandine), Jade (Black and Blue), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Onyx, Tiger Iron


General Support:
Azurite, Calcite (Honey), Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysanthemum Stone, Chrysocolla, Citrine, Dragonstone, Dumortierite, Eudialyte, Fossilized Shell, Idocrase, Jade (Purple), Jasper (Red), Labradorite, Merlinite, Muscovite, Quartz (Strawberry), Ruby (all varieties), Shattuckite, Selenite, Septarian Nodule, Stichtite, Tanzanite, Thulite, Topaz (all colors), Tourmaline (Multicolored), Vanadinite


Comfort during times of grief:
Aragonite (Brown), Danburite, Jasper (Kambamba), Jet, Larimar, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Ruby Zoisite

Easing the passing from life to death:
Chiastolite, Eudialyte, Labradorite, Turquoise (Green), Zoisite

Fear of your own death:
Ruby Zoisite, Zoisite

Making peace with death:
Agate (Apricot), Carnelian, Labradorite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Ruby Zoisite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Zoisite


About our health:
Aventurine (Pink), Infinite, Serpentine

About money:
Cat’s Eye, Garnet (Almandine), Opal (Green)

Adjusting choices based on new information:
Atlantasite, Fluorite (Yellow), Jade (Black and Purple)

Following through with our decisions:
Dragonstone, Sapphire (Yellow)

Making good decisions:
Agate (Dendritic and Turritella), Ametrine, Apophyllite, Aventurine (Green), Carnelian, Citrine, Emerald, Garnet (Hessonite), Jade (Blue), Jasper (Ocean), Larvikite, Lodestone, Obsidian (Rainbow and Silver Sheen), Peacock Ore, Tiger’s Eye (all colors), Vatican Stone

Overcoming indecision:
Bronzite, Calcite (Clear), Jaguar Stone, Pietersite, Stilbite

Taking responsibility for choices:
Jasper (Red)

Trusting we’ve made good choices:
Aventurine (Yellow), Carnelian, Jasper (Bumblebee), Kunzite (Gold), Lapis Lazuli


Associated with Bipolar Disorder:
Lepidolite, Tiger Iron

Associated with PTSD:
Bloodstone, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Associated with physical illness or physical trauma:
Angelite, Chiastolite

Depression because of a divorce of breakup:
Muscovite, Obsidian (Apache Tear)

Seasonal Affective Disorder:
Amber, Tiger’s Eye (Gold), Sunstone

Sooth depression:
Agate (Moss), Bloodstone, Calcite (Orange), Chiastolite, Chinese Writing Stone, Eudialyte, Jet, Lapis Lazuli, Obsidian (Rainbow), Petrified Wood, Rhodochrosite, Scolecite, Smoky Quartz, Stichtite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Tanzanite (Prairie), Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Sooth depression and anxiety:
Agate (Botswana), Angelite, Aventurine (Green and Pink), Citrine, Copper, Coral (Red), Kyanite, Labradorite, Obsidian (Mahogany and Silver Sheen), Peridot, Quartz (Lavender), Rhodonite, Rutilated Quartz, Sapphire (Blue and Yellow), Tourmaline (Black)

Support for chronic depression:
Tiger Iron

See also “Grief”

See also Adrenal Glands and Brain Chemistry in the Physical Healing Index


Onyx, Sardonyx, Stromatolite


Agate (Tree), Buddstone, Chinese Writing Stone, Danburite, (Red), Eudialyte, Garnet (Almandine and Uvarovite), Jasper (Ocean), Jet, Lapis Lazuli, Opal (White), Pietersite, Prasiolite, Scheelite Lace, Stromatolite, Turquoise (Green)


Buddstone, Emerald, Fluorite (all colors), Howlite, Jade (Purple), Lapis Lazuli, Muscovite, Lodestone, Onyx, Opal (White), Quartz (Tangerine), Sapphire (all colors), Selenite, Variscite


Azurite, Chrysoberyl, Jasper (Red), Ruby, Sapphire (all colors), Septarian Nodule


Dream interpretation: Angelite, Chinese Writing Stone, Jasper (Red)

Dream recall: Angelite, Jasper (Red), Ruby Kyanite

Having pleasant dreams: Calcite (Honey and Mangano), Stilbite

Lucid dreams: Angelite, Apatite (Blue), Barite, Ruby Kyanite

Support after a nightmares: Howlite


Stichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)




Amethyst, Calcite (Honey), Jade (White), Kyanite, Opal (Green), Quartz (Snow)



Ego, reducing

Agate (Tree and Turritella), Aragonite (Red), Chrysoberyl, Citron Chrysoprase, Coral (Blue and Red), Jade (White), Opal (Blue and Pink), Petalite, Scheelite Lace, Septarian Nodule, Super Seven, Tourmaline (Green and Pink)


Ability to endure difficult emotions: Cinabrite, Garnet (Almandine and Spessartine), Indigo Gabbro, Kyanite, Labradorite, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Snowflake), Shungite, Stromatolite, Variscite

Clearing up emotional confusion:
Angelite, Apatite (all colors), Barite, Carnelian, Cavansite, Fluorite (all colors), Jet, Kyanite, Variscite

Controlling emotional responses in a healthy manner:
Azurite, Bronzite, Calcite (Gold), Fluorite (all colors), Jet, Labradorite, Larvikite, Onyx, Quartz (Girasol), Sardonyx, Smoky Quartz, Tiger Iron

Exploring the root cause of our most difficult emotions:
Agate (Blue Lace), Chalcedony (Pink), Hematite, Moldavite, Muscovite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Ruby, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Feeling emotionally free:
Aventurine (Green), Celestite, Garnet (all varieties), Lepidolite, Septarian Nodule, Sodalite, Sugilite, Sunstone, Thulite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Feeling more positive:
Agate (Tree), Amber, Calcite (Blue and Honey), Citrine, Jasper (Bumblebee), Quartz, Zoisite

Feeling safe enough to acknowledge and express emotions:
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace), Amethyst (Chevron), Barite, Buddstone, Danburite, Idocrase, Jaguar Stone, Jasper (Red), Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Rhodochrosite, Tourmaline (Pink), Vatican Stone, Vesuvianite

Feeling understood by other people:
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace), Chalcedony (Blue), Chiastolite, Quartz (Lavender), Rose Quartz, Variscite

Healing emotional wounds and scars:
Apophyllite, Aragonite (Blue and Brown), Moonstone (Peach), Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Rhodochrosite, Rhodonite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Protection and healing when emotionally exhausted:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Apatite (all colors), Epidote, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Prehnite Epidote, Turquoise

Releasing negative emotions:
Agate (Dendritic), Aragonite (Blue), Aventurine (Green and Pink), Calcite (Blue), Carnelian, Chrysocolla, Citrine, Garnet (Uvarovite), Kyanite, Larimar, Moonstone Tourmaline, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Onyx, Prehnite, Quartz, Ruby Zoisite, Sardonyx

Staying emotionally neutral and openminded:
Agatized Coral, Chrysocolla, Coral (Blue and Red), Moonstone Tourmaline, Quartz (Clear), Tourmaline (Black)

Taking responsibility for our emotional reactions:
Amethyst, Aquamarine, Hawks Eye, Galena, Jasper (Yellow), Lepidolite, Muscovite, Obsidian (Black), Quartz (Tangerine), Serpentine, Shattuckite, Tigers Eye (Gold and Red)

Emotional Intelligence

Agate (Gray), Dumortierite, Moonstone (all varieties), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Ruby Iolite, Scheelite Lace, Sodalite


Holding space for others without internalizing:
Moldavite, Muscovite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Rose Quartz, Sunstone, Turquoise (Blue)

Protection from being overwhelmed by people you love:
Jade (Purple), Rose Quartz

Protection when forced to be around negative people:
Cat’s Eye, Jaguar Stone, Tiger’s Eye (Gold)


Aragonite (Blue), Calcite (Mangano), Chalcedony (Pink), Rhodonite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Rose Quartz, Thulite, Vesuvianite


Amazonite, Aragonite (Red), Aventurine (Red), Chrysoberyl, Citrine, Garnet (Hessonite), Jasper (Bumblebee and Leopardskin), Moonstone, Sunstone, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)


Ametrine, Bismuth, Muscovite, Pyrite, Rhodochrosite

Extrovert support

Apatite (all colors), Calcite (Green and Orange), Chrysanthemum Stone, Idocrase, Peridot, Pyrite, Quartz (Blue and Whiskey), Rhodonite, Ruby, Tektite, Vesuvianite


Father Figures:
Garnet (Andradite), Jasper (Red), Labradorite (Golden), Tourmaline (Green), Turquoise (Blue)

Having realistic expectation of families:
Agate (Blue Lace)

Mother Figures:
Agate (Blue Lace), Larimar, Rhodochrosite, Rose Quartz, Turquoise (Green)

Raising children:
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace), Fuchsite, Jade (Black and Blue), Lapis Lazuli

Resolving family conflict:
Agate (Apricot), Eudialyte, Fuchsite, Jasper (Desert and Yellow), Onyx, Tourmaline (Pink)

Staying connected to our family:
Agate (Apricot and Dendritic)

Support during times of family stress:
Tiger Iron

Taking good care of our family:
Jade (Green), Petrified Wood, Rose Quartz, Scolecite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Understanding family habits and patterns:
Jasper (Mookaite), Obsidian (Black)


About being inadequate:
Calcite (Honey), Jade (Black), Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Turquoise

About being misunderstood:

About change:
Diopside, Serpentine

About our basic needs not being met:
Hematite, Quartz (Tangerine)

About public speaking:
Topaz (Blue)

About the future:
Copper, Pietersite, Serpentine, Sunstone

About the unknown:
Agate (Moss), Bloodstone, Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysocolla, Iolite, Jasper (Desert), Quartz (Blue), Rose Quartz, Ruby Iolite, Unakite

Fear causing us to “play small”:
Nuummite, Picasso Marble, Stichtite

Fear of danger:
Auralite 23, Jasper (Mookaite), Rhodonite, Tourmaline (Black)

Fear of drowning:

Fear of failure:
Amazonite, Dragonstone, Emerald, Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Septarian Nodule

Fear of intimacy:
Cat’s Eye

Fear of missing out (FOMO):
Tourmaline (green-black)

Fear of small/tight spaces (Claustrophobia):
Tourmaline (Green)

Releasing fear in general:
Agate (Apricot, Fire and Gray), Amazonite, Barite, Calcite (Mangano and White), Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysocolla, Jasper (Picture and Red, Lepidolite, Obsidian (Golden Sheen), Opal (Blue), Pyrite, Quartz (Blue and Whiskey), Ruby Zoisite, Scheelite Lace, Stichtite, Stilbite, Sugilite, Tourmaline (Multicolored), Zoisite

Releasing irrational fears and paranoia:
Azurite, Celestite, Kyanite

Speaking up when you are afraid:
Angelite, Sapphire (Blue)

Understanding our fears:

Flexibility (mental)

Agate (Tree), Aragonite (Red and Yellow), Galena, Moonstone Tourmaline, Seraphinite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)


Calcite (Mangano), Chrysoberyl, Dioptase, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Stichtite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red) Turquoise (Blue and Green)


Attracting new friends:
Aventurine (Green), Garnet (Grossularite), Jade (Green), Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Scolecite

Celebrating our friendships:
Barite, Calcite (Orange), Garnet (Grossularite), Obsidian (Rainbow), Rhodonite, Quartz Quartz (Lavender and Whiskey), Rose Quartz, Ruby, Sardonyx, Scolecite, Shiva Lingam


Father Figures:
Garnet (Andradite), Jasper (Red), Labradorite (Golden), Tourmaline (Green), Turquoise (Blue)

Having realistic expectation of families:
Agate (Blue Lace)

Mother Figures:
Agate (Blue Lace), Larimar, Rhodochrosite, Rose Quartz, Turquoise (Green)

Raising children:
Agate (Apricot and Blue Lace), Fuchsite, Jade (Black and Blue), Lapis Lazuli

Resolving family conflict:
Agate (Apricot), Eudialyte, Fuchsite, Jasper (Desert and Yellow), Onyx, Tourmaline (Pink)

Staying connected to our family:
Agate (Apricot and Dendritic)

Support during times of family stress:
Tiger Iron

Taking good care of our family:
Jade (Green), Petrified Wood, Rose Quartz, Scolecite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Understanding family habits and patterns:
Jasper (Mookaite), Obsidian (Black)


About being inadequate:
Calcite (Honey), Jade (Black), Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Turquoise

About being misunderstood:

About change:
Diopside, Serpentine

About our basic needs not being met:
Hematite, Quartz (Tangerine)

About public speaking:
Topaz (Blue)

About the future:
Copper, Pietersite, Serpentine, Sunstone

About the unknown:
Agate (Moss), Bloodstone, Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysocolla, Iolite, Jasper (Desert), Quartz (Blue), Rose Quartz, Ruby Iolite, Unakite

Fear causing us to “play small”:
Nuummite, Picasso Marble, Stichtite

Fear of danger:
Auralite 23, Jasper (Mookaite), Rhodonite, Tourmaline (Black)

Fear of drowning:

Fear of failure:
Amazonite, Dragonstone, Emerald, Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Septarian Nodule

Fear of intimacy:
Cat’s Eye,

Fear of missing out (FOMO):
Tourmaline (green-black)

Fear of small/tight spaces (Claustrophobia):
Tourmaline (Green)

Releasing fear in general:
Agate (Apricot, Fire and Gray), Amazonite, Barite, Calcite (Mangano and White), Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysocolla, Jasper (Picture and Red), Lepidolite, Obsidian (Golden Sheen), Opal (Blue), Pyrite, Quartz (Blue and Whiskey), Ruby Zoisite, Scheelite Lace, Stichtite, Stilbite, Sugilite, Tourmaline (Multicolored), Zoisite

Releasing irrational fears and paranoia:
Azurite, Celestite, Kyanite

Speaking up when you are afraid:
Angelite, Sapphire (Blue)

Understanding our fears:

Flexibility (mental)

Agate (Tree), Aragonite (Red and Yellow), Galena, Moonstone Tourmaline, Seraphinite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)


Calcite (Mangano), Chrysoberyl, Dioptase, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Stichtite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red), Turquoise (Blue and Green)


Attracting new friends:
Aventurine (Green), Garnet (Grossularite), Jade (Green), Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Scolecite

Celebrating our friendships:
Barite, Calcite (Orange), Garnet (Grossularite), Obsidian (Rainbow), Rhodonite, Quartz Quartz (Lavender and Whiskey), Rose Quartz, Ruby, Sardonyx, Scolecite, Shiva Lingam


Auralite 23, Calcite (Gold and Honey), Chalcedony (Chrome and Pink), Garnet (Grossularite and Hessonite), Jasper (Yellow), Opal (Pink), Rhodochrosite, Ruby Fuchsite, Scheelite Lace, Thulite, Turquoise


Creating goals:
Aquamarine, Emerald, Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Ruby Iolite

Focusing on high priority goals:
Hawks Eye, Shungite

Overcoming obstacles:
Bornite, Chlorite Quartz, Chrysoberyl

Staying focused long-term:
Aquamarine, Chrysoberyl, Lodestone, Rutilated Quartz, Sodalite


Agate (Dendritic), Calcite (Honey), Celestite, Cinabrite, Cradle of Humankind, Garnet (Almandine, Andradite and Uvarovite), Hiddenite, Peridot, Ruby Zoisite, Seraphinite, Tourmaline (Green)

Greed, Reducing

Jade (Green and White), Scheelite Lace


Releasing grief:
Aragonite (Blue), Aventurine (Pink), Barite, Bornite, Calcite (Mangano), Epidote, Morganite (Peach), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Opal (Blue), Prehnite Epidote, Stichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)

Support during:
Amethyst, Aragonite (Brown), Danburite, Dragonstone, Jasper (Kambamba), Merlinite, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Ruby Zoisite, Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Sugilite


Agate (Botswana, Crazy Lace, and Gray), Aragonite (Brown), Iolite, Jade (Purple), Jasper (Kambamba), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Preseli, Smoky Quartz, Tourmaline (Black and Red)

Agate (Gray), Obsidian (Black), Petalite, Stilbite, Tiger Iron, Tiger’s Eye (Red)


Aragonite (Red), Kunzite, Lapis Lazuli, Morganite (Peach), Quartz (Girasol)

Ruby Zoisite, Tektite

Personal growth in general:
Amethyst (Chevron), Aventurine (Green), Calcite (Clear), Chrysanthemum Stone, Cradle of Humankind, Howlite, Iolite, Jasper (Red), Nuummite, Quartz (Blue), Sand Dollar Fossil, Vanadinite


Related to defying social norms:
Apatite (all colors),

Related to our sexuality:
Aventurine (Red), Jasper (Red), Tiger’s Eye (Red)

Agate (Dendritic), Chiastolite, Cradle of Humankind, Jasper (Red), Larimar, Obsidian (Mahogany), Opal (Green), Quartz (Tangerine), Rhodochrosite, Sapphire (all colors), Sodalite

Survivor’s Guilt:
Obsidian (Apache Tear), Rhodochrosite, Ruby

Habits, emotional and mental

Breaking bad habits:
Agate (Blue Lace), Calcite (Mangano), Chiastolite, Fluorite (all colors), Hawks Eye, Idocrase, Kyanite, Obsidian (all varieties), Petrified Wood, Serpentine, Shiva Lingam, Sunstone

Improving our habits:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Amber, Apatite (Blue and Green), Calcite (Clear and Green and Honey), Cavansite, Chrysoberyl, Dumortierite, Fuchsite, Indigo Gabbro, Jade (Purple and White), Jasper (Desert and Picture), Lepidolite, Magnesite, Petalite, Ruby Fuchsite, Rutilated Quartz, Seraphinite, Sugilite, Unakite, Variscite

Maintaining healthy habits:
Aventurine (Pink), Idocrase, Lepidolite, Tiger Iron, Vesuvianite

Recognizing our habits:
Agate (Turritella), Amethyst, Apophyllite, Buddstone, Dumortierite, Fluorite (all colors), Fuchsite, Garnet (Hessonite), Indigo Gabbro, Jasper (Mookaite), Lepidolite, Moonstone (Black), Morganite, Obsidian (all varieties), Petalite, Sugilite, Unakite


Be happy and delighted:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Amber, Apatite (Blue and Green), Aventurine (Yellow), Calcite (Honey), Citrine, Dioptase, Garnet (Almandine ), Jade (Purple), Jasper (Bumblebee), Kunzite, Opal (Yellow), Peacock Ore, Peridot, Picasso Marble, Ruby Zoisite, Seraphinite, Stichtite, Sunstone, Thulite, Tourmaline (Green)

Be happy and empowered:
Agate (Fire), Charoite, Chrysoberyl, Cinabrite, Epidote, Thulite

Be happy and peaceful:
Agate (Dendritic), Ametrine, Atlantasite, Calcite (Blue), Chlorite Quartz, Chrysoprase, Dioptase, Jade (all colors), Moonstone (Black), Opal (Pink), Peacock Ore, Petalite, Prehnite, Rose Quartz, Ruby Zoisite, Rutilated Quartz, Scolecite, Selenite (Orange), Shiva Lingam, Stilbite, Tourmaline (Black), Variscite

Cultivate daily and long-term happiness:
Agate (Moss), Cinabrite, Garnet (Almandine), Idocrase, Indigo Gabbro, Jasper (Kambamba), Larimar, Lodestone, Obsidian (Golden Sheen), Sand Dollar Fossil,

Returning to happiness:
Chrysoberyl, Jade (Purple), Jasper (Kambamba), Obsidian (Rainbow), Opal (Green), Rhodonite, Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite,


Within a group:
Amazonite, Ametrine, Angelite, Chalcedony (Chrome), Chrysanthemum Stone, Chrysocolla, Danburite, Jade (Blue, Green and White), Jasper (Picture), Sapphire (all colors), Seraphinite, Sodalite

Within yourself:
Agate (Gray), Amazonite, Ametrine, Chalcedony (Blue), Chiastolite, Chrysanthemum Stone, Eudialyte, Idocrase, Jade (Blue and White), Quartz, Ruby Iolite, Smoky Quartz, Tourmaline (Multicolored), Vesuvianite

Helplessness, Overcoming

Amazonite, Cavansite, Copper, Hawks Eye, Jasper (Leopardskin), Morganite (Peach), Ruby, Vanadinite


With others:
Apophyllite, Aquamarine, Azurite, Calcite (Mangano), Amethyst, Cat’s Eye, Jaguar Stone, Jasper (all varieties), Quartz (Girasol), Sardonyx, Seraphinite, Serpentine, Shattuckite, Stilbite, Topaz (Blue), Turquoise (Green)

With ourselves:
Agate (Apricot, Botswana and Gray), Apophyllite, Aventurine (Red), Calcite (Mangano), Amethyst, Cat’s Eye, Epidote, Hematite, Jade (Black), Jaguar Stone, Jasper (all varieties), Prehnite Epidote, Quartz (Girasol and Tangerine), Rhodochrosite, Ruby Iolite, Selenite, Stilbite, Topaz (Blue)


Bronzite, Chinese Writing Stone, Jasper (Red), Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Sardonyx


Be hopeful and empowered:
Cavansite, Cinabrite, Dragonstone, Garnet (Almandine and Grossularite), Jade (Green and White), Jasper (Desert and Rainforest), Muscovite, Pietersite, Thulite

Be hopeful and grounded:
Epidote, Iolite, Quartz (Tangerine), Serpentine, Unakite

Be hopeful and happy:
Apatite (all colors), Dumortierite, Muscovite, Opal (Blue and Pink), Quartz (Girasol), Ruby Zoisite, Seraphinite, Sugilite, Sunstone, Topaz (all colors), Zoisite

Be hopeful and peaceful:
Celestite, Chrysoprase, Magnesite, Quartz (Blue), Seraphinite, Topaz (all colors)

Have hope during difficult times:
Agate (Moss), Apatite (all colors), Apophyllite, Charoite, Quartz (Tangerine), Rutilated Quartz

Hostility, Reducing

Chalcedony (Chrome and Pink)


Agate (Turritella), Aragonite (Yellow), Garnet (Almandine and Uvarovite), Kunzite, Nuummite, Scheelite Lace


Agate (Crazy Lace), Aventurine (Green, Pink and Yellow), Calcite (Green and Orange), Celestite, Cinabrite, Citrine, Jade (Purple), Stichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie),






Fluorite (Yellow), Fossilized Shell, Garnet (Almandine), Jaguar Stone, Jasper (Leopardskin and Yellow), Labradorite, Merlinite, Picasso Marble, Pietersite, Prehnite Epidote, Pyrite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)




Bloodstone, Charoite, Cinabrite, Citrine, Coral (Red), Fuchsite, Garnet (Uvarovite), Infinite, Jade (all colors), Ruby Fuchsite, Ruby Zoisite, Seraphinite, Sunstone, Tourmaline (Pink), Zoisite

Inertia, Overcoming

Aragonite (Red), Calcite (Orange), Cavansite, Opal (Green), Peridot, Ruby Iolite, Selenite, Tourmaline (Pink), Zoisite


Be protected from the negative influence of others:
Agate (Fire), Amethyst, Calcite (Green), Cat’s Eye, Citrine, Jaguar Stone, Kyanite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold), Tourmaline (Black),

Positively influence others:
Cinabrite, Fuchsite, Lepidolite, Onyx, Petrified Wood, Super Seven

Inhibition (Releasing)

Garnet (all varieties), Opal (Pink and Yellow)



See also “Anxiety” and “Fear”


Agate (Blue Lace), Amethyst, Auralite 23, Howlite, Jasper (Yellow), Lapis Lazuli, Lepidolite, Opal (Green), Scolecite, Sodalite, Variscite


Agate (Fire and Tree), Amethyst, Apatite (all colors), Calcite (Honey), Dumortierite, Jade (Green), Moldavite, Moonstone (all varieties), Quartz (Strawberry), Tourmaline (Multicolored)


Improving our instincts:
Bronzite, Obsidian (Golden Sheen and Silver Sheen)

Trusting out instincts:
Agate (Blue Lace), Garnet (Hessonite), Jasper (Mookaite), Picasso Marble, Tiger’s Eye (Red)


Agate (Dendritic), Amethyst, Aventurine (all colors), Bloodstone, Calcite (Blue and Orange), Chalcopyrite, Epidote, Indigo Gabbro, Muscovite, Obsidian (Black), Opal (White), Prehnite Epidote, Preseli, Pyrite, Quartz (Girasol), Sapphire (all colors),Scheelite Lace, Super Seven, Topaz (Blue), Variscite

Introvert support

Calcite (Green), Chalcedony (Pink), Muscovite, Stilbite, Tiger Iron


Being protected from other people’s jealousy:

Releasing our own jealousy:
Agate (Dendritic), Chrysanthemum Stone, Picasso Marble


Judge accurately:
Amethyst, Chrysoberyl, Citron Chrysoprase, Emerald, Muscovite, Stichtite, Tanzanite

Release worry about other people’s judgement:
Amazonite, Morganite, Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Opal (Pink)

Sit in non-judgement:
Agatized Coral, Moonstone (Black), Scolecite


Amethyst, Azurite, Barite, Cinabrite, Emerald, Jasper (Leopardskin, Picture and Red), Sardonyx, Selenite, Thulite


Bloodstone, Calcite (Mangano), Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysoprase, Jasper (Ocean), Opal (Pink), Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Scolecite, Turquoise (Blue and Green)


Encouraging lifelong learning:
Atlantasite, Azurite, Calcite (Green), Cinabrite, Citrine, Fuchsite, Howlite, Quartz (Blue), Sodalite, Tektite, Topaz (Blue)

Support when learning something new:
Fluorite (all colors), Onyx

Working around learning disabilities:
Dragonstone, Larvikite, Merlinite

Limitations, releasing

Auralite 23, Aventurine (Green), Merlinite, Petrified Wood, Quartz (Clear)


Combine logic and creativity:
Carnelian, Labradorite, Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Combine logic with intuition:
Agate (Dendritic), Amazonite, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Calcite (Clear), Celestite, Iolite, Merlinite, Moonstone (all varieties), Sodalite, Sunset Sodalite, Turquoise

Combine logic with love:
Cinabrite, Kunzite, Prasiolite, Stichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie), Thulite, Variscite

Think logically:
Bronzite, Coral (Red), Dumortierite, Hematite, Indigo Gabbro, Lepidolite, Obsidian (Rainbow), Onyx, Ruby Zoisite, Sapphire (Blue), Septarian Nodule, Tourmaline (Black), Variscite, Vatican Stone, Zoisite


Bismuth, Garnet (Andradite and Uvarovite), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Shiva Lingam,


Attracting new romantic partners:
Agate (Botswana), Charoite, Garnet (Almandine), Larimar, Obsidian (Rainbow), Rose Quartz, Ruby, Thulite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Being open to love:
Chalcedony (Chrome), Diopside, Morganite, Opal (Yellow), Petalite, Prasiolite, Rose Quartz, Thulite, Turquoise

Cultivating self-love:
Cat’s Eye, Larimar, Morganite (Peach), Nuummite, Opal (Green), Petalite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Serpentine, Shungite, Topaz (White), Tourmaline (Pink and Red), Vanadinite

Healing after heartbreak:
Aventurine (Pink), Moonstone (Peach), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Opal (Yellow), Rhodonite

Keeping romantic love strong and healthy:
Bismuth, Calcite (Mangano), Emerald, Garnet (Almandine), Jasper (Red), Morganite, Opal (Pink), Peacock Ore, Rose Quartz, Rutilated Quartz, Sardonyx, Shiva Lingam,

Knowing when to give “tough love”:

Letting go of someone we love:
Obsidian (Apache Tear), Sunstone

Unconditional love:
Charoite, Citron Chrysoprase, Fuchsite, Kunzite, Prasiolite, Prehnite, Rhodochrosite, Rose Quartz, Thulite, Variscite,


Agate (Blue Lace), Buddstone, Emerald, Garnet (Grossularite), Jade (Green), Morganite, Opal (Green), Ruby, Shiva Lingam, Tourmaline (Pink)


Aventurine (Green and Pink), Chrysanthemum Stone, Copper, Jade (Green and White), Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Quartz (Whiskey), Sand Dollar Fossil, Sapphire (Yellow), Sunstone, Tektite, Thulite


Be honest with people:
Azurite, Hiddenite, Quartz (Girasol), Serpentine, Shattuckite, Sodalite, Turquoise (Green)

Be protected from manipulation:
Agate (Dendritic), Agatized Coral, Apatite (all colors), Jasper (Red), Larimar, Quartz (Tangerine), Rhodochrosite, Sodalite

Martyrdom, Releasing

Amethyst, Fuchsite, Jasper (Ocean), Quartz (Girasol and Snow), Ruby Fuchsite, Turquoise


Agate (Gray), Aventurine (Blue), Azurite, Jade (Black and Purple), Lapis Lazuli


Sharpening memory:
Barite, Chalcedony (Blue), Chalcopyrite, Cradle of Humankind, Dumortierite, Emerald, Howlite, Lapis Lazuli, Larvikite, Quartz (Clear), Rutilated Quartz

Unblocking suppressed memories:
Apophyllite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Pietersite


Calming the mind:
Agate (Blue Lace), Amethyst, Chrysoberyl, Howlite, Jade (all colors), Jasper (Desert), Kyanite, Petalite, Quartz (Clear and Snow), Scolecite, Stilbite, Stromatolite, Super Seven

Clearing up mental confusion:
Apatite (all colors), Aquamarine, Barite, Carnelian, Fluorite (all colors), Kyanite, Onyx, Shungite

Creating new mental patterns:
Chiastolite, Fluorite (all colors), Obsidian (Mahogany), Selenite, Sugilite

Enhancing mental gifts:
Dumortierite, Fluorite (all colors), Muscovite, Shattuckite

Exploring current mental patterns:
Apophyllite, Fuchsite, Jade (Green and White), Jasper (Mookaite), Labradorite, Onyx, Selenite, Sugilite

Having mental discipline:
Aragonite (Brown), Azurite, Jasper (Rainforest and Red), Sapphire (all colors), Septarian Nodule, Smoky Quartz

Keeping an open mind:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Aragonite (Blue), Atlantasite, Buddstone, Chalcedony (Blue), Chrysanthemum Stone, Danburite, Garnet (Andradite), Jade (Purple), Opal (Pink), Quartz (Whiskey)

Releasing mental blocks:
Jasper (Desert)

Releasing mental stress:
Agate (Blue Lace and Dendritic), Danburite, Obsidian (Snowflake), Topaz (White)

Mid-life Crisis

Aventurine (Green), Chiastolite, Jasper (Mookaite), Stromatolite

Mind-Body Connection

Obsidian (Mahogany), Sapphire (all colors), Sugilite


Aventurine (Yellow), Chrysoberyl, Hematite, Jasper (Yellow), Lapis Lazuli, Quartz (Tangerine), Super Seven, Tourmaline (Black)

Calcite (Clear)

Seeing the value of mistakes:
Apophyllite, Dragonstone, Fuchsite, Merlinite, Ruby Fuchsite, Variscite


Being motivated:
Cavansite, Sunstone, Zoisite

Understanding what really motivates you:
Quartz (Tangerine)

Nature Deficit Disorder

Apophyllite (Green), Jasper (Picture) and (Rainforest)


Balancing different needs:
Copper, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Tourmaline (Multicolored)

Getting clear about your needs:
Bismuth, Coral (Blue), Kyanite, Picasso Marble, Seraphinite, Serpentine, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)

Getting needs met:
Apatite (Green), Chlorite Quartz, Chrysocolla, Emerald, Garnet (Grossularite and Uvarovite)

Healing from neglect:
Chalcedony (Blue), Infinite, Rose Quartz

Understanding other people’s needs:
Aquamarine, Diopside, Emerald, Labradorite (Golden), Ruby Iolite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)


Agate (Blue Lace), Atlantasite, Barite, Chrysocolla, Jade (Green), Jasper (Ocean), Morganite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Ruby

Chalcedony (Blue and Pink), Jasper (Yellow), Larimar, Rose Quartz, Ruby, Septarian Nodule


Jade (Black and Blue), Lapis Lazuli, Quartz (Whiskey), Shungite

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Dumortierite, Tourmaline (Black)

See also Thinking


Bismuth, Danburite, Jade (Purple), Petrified Palm Wood

Azurite, Danburite, Quartz (Whiskey)


Be more organized:
Aquamarine, Buddstone, Fluorite (all colors), Ruby Kyanite, Seraphinite, Stilbite

Prioritize correctly:
Fluorite (all colors), Kyanite, Vanadinite

Think logically and linearly:
Citrine, Jasper (Desert and Yellow), Quartz (Clear), Scheelite Lace, Vanadinite

Overreacting, Reducing

Chalcedony (Chrome), Hawks Eye, Moonstone Tourmaline

Overwhelm, Reducing

Chalcedony (Chrome and Pink), Hematite, Muscovite, Quartz (Tangerine), Variscite


Bismuth, Dumortierite, Garnet (Almandine), Tourmaline (Green)


Celestite, Vatican Stone


Find & follow your passion:
Agate (Fire), Aquamarine, Copper, Epidote, Ruby Iolite

Ignite romantic passion:
Agate (Fire), Aventurine (Pink and Red), Garnet (Almandine), Opal (Yellow), Rose Quartz, Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Ruby Iolite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)


Making peace with the past:
Agate (Gray), Aragonite (Yellow), Hematite, Hiddenite, Moonstone (Black), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Unakite

Healing old emotional wounds and traumas:
Apophyllite, Morganite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Rhodochrosite, Rhodonite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Releasing the past and moving forward:
Agate (Moss), Amazonite, Aquamarine, Aragonite (Brown), Aventurine (Green), Bornite, Citrine, Dioptase, Garnet (Almandine), Hematite, Kyanite, Larvikite, Lepidolite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Quartz (Strawberry), Rose Quartz, Selenite, Sunstone

Using the past as a guide:
Calcite (Green), Chalcedony (Pink), Hawk’s Eye, Nuummite, Stromatolite


Be patient:
Agate (Botswana, Dendritic, Gray, Moss and Turritella), Aragonite (Brown), Atlantasite, Celestite, Citron Chrysoprase, Dragonstone, Jasper (Ocean), Larvikite, Merlinite, Moonstone (Black), Morganite, Petrified Wood, Scolecite, Septarian Nodule, Serpentine, Stromatolite, Super Seven, Unakite

Be patient with ourselves:
Aragonite (Brown), Cradle of Humankind, Howlite, Indigo Gabbro, Jasper (Ocean), Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Sodalite, Sodalite (Sunset), Tanzanite, Tiger Iron


Be peaceful and relaxed:
Chalcedony (Blue), Chrysocolla, Citron Chrysoprase, Howlite, Jasper (Mookaite), Kyanite, Larimar, Magnesite, Scolecite, Selenite, Stromatolite, Turquoise

Be peaceful and happy:
Agate (Dendritic), Amber, Ametrine, Atlantasite, Calcite (Blue), Celestite, Chlorite Quartz, Chrysoprase, Dioptase, Jade (all colors), Jasper (Desert), Moonstone (Black), Opal (Pink), Peacock Ore, Petalite, Prehnite, Rose Quartz, Ruby Zoisite, Rutilated Quartz, Scolecite, Selenite (Orange), Shiva Lingam, Stilbite, Tourmaline (Black), Variscite

Cultivate daily and long-term peace:
Agate (Turritella), Chrysoberyl, Diopside, Indigo Gabbro, Larvikite, Scheelite Lace


Get a new perspective:
Dumortierite, Jade (Blue), Larvikite, Opal (Green)

Keep things in proper perspective:
Agate (Botswana), Chiastolite, Diopside, Iolite, Lodestone, Ruby Kyanite

See the “big picture”:
Apophyllite, Azurite Granite (K2), Calcite (Green), Celestite, Chrysanthemum Stone, Hawk’s Eye, Jade (White), Jasper (Picture), Obsidian (Snowflake), Ruby Matrix, Ruby Zoisite, Sapphire (Yellow), Scolecite, Stromatolite, Turquoise (Green), Vesuvianite, Vatican Stone


Aragonite (Red and Yellow), Calcite (Honey), Chalcedony (Pink), Tourmaline (Green)


Agate (Crazy Lace), Aventurine (Yellow), Calcite (Orange), Citrine, Jade (Green), Peacock Ore, Peridot, Quartz (Strawberry and Whiskey), Rhodochrosite, Ruby Zoisite, Sand Dollar Fossil, Sapphire (Yellow), Stichtite, Thulite, Vanadinite


Aventurine (Red), Cavansite, Dioptase, Eudialyte, Jasper (Leopardskin and Picasso), Obsidian (Snowflake), Opal (Pink), Rose Quartz, Ruby, Thulite, Tiger’s Eye (Red)

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Bloodstone, Jade (Black), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Ruby, Rutilated Quartz, Tourmaline (Pink, Purple and Red)


Be practical:
Agate (Dendritic and Turritella), Aragonite (Brown and Yellow), Bornite, Cat’s Eye, Charoite, Chrysoberyl, Chrysoprase, Fluorite (all colors), Fuchsite, Hematite, Jasper (Red), Quartz (Tangerine), Ruby Fuchsite, Sapphire (all colors), Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Unakite, Vatican Stone

Take practical action:
Agate (Turritella), Chlorite Quartz, Chrysoberyl, Citrine, Galena, Hematite, Indigo Gabbro, Jade (Purple), Peacock Ore, Shattuckite, Tiger Iron, Tourmaline (Black),


Be humble:
Agate (Turritella), Aragonite (Yellow), Scheelite Lace

Be proud of yourself:
Ametrine, Chalcedony (Pink), Dumortierite, Moonstone (Black), Petalite, Tourmaline (Pink)

Problem Solving

Find a more creative solutions:


Find practical and positive solutions:
Agate (Gray), Aventurine (Green), Chalcedony (Pink), Citron Chrysoprase, Coral (Red), Jade (Black and Blue), Jasper (Desert), Pietersite, Smoky Quartz, Stromatolite

Improving problem-solving skills:
Amazonite, Bornite, Cinabrite, Dumortierite, Idocrase, Jasper (Bumblebee and Yellow), Muscovite, Obsidian (all varieties), Quartz (Clear), Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Shattuckite, Smoky Quartz, Sodalite (Sunset), Sunstone


Calcite (Honey), Jasper (Yellow)


Agate (Blue Lace and Gray), Aragonite (Red and Yellow), Dragonstone, Larvikite, Petalite, Prehnite Epidote, Shattuckite


Have no regrets:
Cat’s Eye, Garnet (Almandine), Labradorite

Let go of regrets:
Aventurine (Green), Garnet (Uvarovite), Hiddenite, Turquoise (Green)


Connecting with new people:
Agate (Botswana), Chrysanthemum Stone, , Jasper (Desert), Quartz (Whiskey), Rose Quartz, Sardonyx

Deepening our connections:
Amethyst, Aquamarine, Bismuth, Emerald, Jade (Green), Kunzite, Morganite, Opal (Green and Yellow), Quartz (Lavender), Rose Quartz, Ruby

Having healthy and long-lasting relationships:
Emerald, Jade (Green), Morganite, Rose Quartz, Ruby Fuchsite, Sardonyx

Resolving conflict:
Chrysocolla, Eudialyte, Jade (Green), Jasper (Desert and Yellow), Onyx, Sardonyx

Support when spending time with difficult people:
Bronzite, Ruby Iolite


Aventurine (Yellow), Calcite (Green), Chalcopyrite, Chlorite Quartz, Chrysoprase, Dumortierite, Jasper (Desert and Red), Magnesite, Moonstone Tourmaline, Morganite, Peacock Ore, Petalite, Petrified Wood, Shungite, Thulite, Tourmaline (Black)


Aragonite (Brown)


Calcite (Green), Chrysanthemum Stone, Danburite, Jade (White), Jasper (Yellow), Picasso Marble, Quartz (Strawberry), Scheelite Lace


Agate (Dendritic), Charoite, Cinabrite, Garnet (Almandine), Obsidian (Apache Tear, Black and Snowflake), Quartz (Whiskey), Smoky Quartz, Stromatolite, Unakite


Chrysoprase, Cradle of Humankind, Jasper (Desert), Obsidian (Mahogany), Onyx


Acknowledge your impact on others:
Aquamarine, Hawk’s Eye, Jasper (Ocean and Red), Quartz (Tangerine), Serpentine, Vanadinite

Recognize your responsibility and have good boundaries:
Jasper (Yellow), Quartz (Tangerine), Shattuckite

Take responsibility for your life and live well:
Aventurine (Blue), Calcite (Blue and Gold), Cinabrite, Dioptase, Galena, Jasper (Leopardskin and Red), Lepidolite, Nuummite, Obsidian (Black, Golden Sheen and Silver Sheen), Opal (Yellow), Septarian Nodule, Serpentine, Stromatolite, Vanadinite

Take responsibility for your responses and reactions:
Amethyst, Aquamarine, Hawk’s Eye, Jasper (Ocean and Red), Morganite, Muscovite, Shattuckite


Attracting a new lover:
Agate (Botswana), Aventurine (Pink and Red), Malachite, Obsidian (Rainbow), Rose Quartz, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)

Nourishing a romantic relationship:
Aventurine (Pink and Red), Bismuth, Cat’s Eye, Emerald, Morganite, Opal (Green), Peacock Ore, Rose Quartz, Sardonyx, Tourmaline (Pink and Red)


Comfort when feeling sad:
Chalcedony (Pink), Danburite, Moonstone (all varieties), Obsidian (Apache Tear), Ruby Zoisite, Variscite

Having hope during times of despair:
Agate (Blue Lace), Apatite (Green), Celestite, Chiastolite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Ruby Iolite, Ruby Zoisite

Letting go of sadness:
Agate (Blue Lace and Gray), Quartz (Whiskey), Selenite, Sunset Sodalite, Sunstone

Processing and releasing sadness:
Azurite, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Selenite

Support during difficult times:
Dragonstone, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Scheelite Lace

See also Depression, Grief, Hope


Creating a safe space:
Chrysocolla, Fossilized Shell, Prehnite, Selenite

Feeling safe:
Agate (Apricot, Fire, Tree and Turritella), Aragonite (Yellow), Barite, Carnelian, Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysocolla, Danburite, Galena, Idocrase, Jasper (Leopardskin and Red), Magnesite, Moonstone & Tourmaline, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Mahogany), Opal (Pink), Petalite, Pyrite, Tourmaline (Black, Pink and Red)

Feeling safe while we do emotional work:
Buddstone, Chalcopyrite, Danburite, Galena, Jasper (Picasso), Obsidian (Apache Tear and Black), Opal (Pink), Vesuvianite

Rebuilding a sense of security:
Agatized Coral, Bismuth, Carnelian, Hematite, Lepidolite, Rhodochrosite




Opal (Green), Rose Quartz, Ruby


Accurate self-analysis and knowledge:
Agate (Apricot, Botswana, Gray) and Turritella), Azurite, Chalcedony (Chrome), Idocrase, Jade (Black), Labradorite, Quartz (Clear), Thulite

Have more self-awareness:
Cat’s Eye, Chalcedony (Blue), Chiastolite, Dioptase, Sodalite, Sodalite (Sunset), Tanzanite (Prairie), Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)

Healing feelings of being unworthy of good things:
Apatite (Green), Bornite, Ruby, Sand Dollar Fossil, Selenite (Desert Rose)

Healing self-hatred and self-sabotage:
Calcite (Green), Chrysoprase, Indigo Gabbro, Jet, Merlinite, Rose Quartz, Turquoise

Honoring your true self-worth:
Chrysoberyl, Eudialyte, Fuchsite, Hiddenite, Obsidian (Mahogany), Prasiolite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz

Prioritizing self-care:
Apatite (Green), Auralite 23, Calcite (Orange), Galena, Hematite, Lodestone, Nuummite, Petalite, Quartz (Girasol Rose, Lavender and Tangerine), Shungite, Thulite, Tourmaline (Black, Pink and Red)

Raising self-esteem:
Agate (Moss), Prasiolite, Selenite (Orange)

Apatite (all colors)

Strengthening self-respect:
Garnet (Almandine, Hessonite and Spessartite), Jasper (Ocean and Rainforest)

See also: Acceptance, Confidence, Control, Discipline, Growth, Limitations, Worth


Demonstrating self-love actions:
Cat’s Eye, Kunzite, Nuummite, Opal (Green), Serpentine, Shungite, Tourmaline (Pink and Red),

Increasing self-love:
Garnet (Almandine), Jade (White), Kunzite, Larimar, Petalite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Topaz (Blue), Tourmaline (Pink and Red),

Learning or remembering to love and honor yourself:
Garnet (Spessartine), Morganite (Peach), Opal (Yellow), Petalite, Rose Quartz, Tourmaline (Multicolored), Vanadinite


Amethyst, Bornite, Calcite (Green), Emerald, Fuchsite, Garnet (Almandine and Grossularite), Jade (White), Jasper (Yellow), Lodestone, Quartz (Whiskey), Ruby Fuchsite, Tourmaline (Black)


Be sensual:
Agate (Turritella), Aventurine (Pink and Red), Garnet Garnet (Almandine and Spessartine), Moonstone (Peach), Opal (Yellow), Quartz (Girasol), Serpentine, Shiva Lingam

Release sensual and sexual inhibitions:
Garnet (all varieties), Garnet (Garnet (Almandine and Hessonite), Jasper (Picasso), Obsidian (Mahogany), Rutilated Quartz, Serpentine, Tiger’s Eye (Red)


Agate (Blue Lace), Amethyst, Angelite, Aragonite (Red), Chalcedony (Blue), Chlorite Quartz, Chrysocolla, Chrysoprase, Citron Chrysoprase, Danburite, Garnet (Almandine, Grossularite and Spessartine), Jade (all colors), Petrified Wood, Picasso Marble, Rutilated Quartz, Selenite

See also Peace, Tranquility


Agate (Dendritic), Apatite (Green), Calcite (Green), Cradle of Humankind, Eudialyte, Garnet (all varieties), Jasper (Red), Larimar, Merlinite, Opal (Green and Pink), Quartz (Tangerine), Ruby, Rhodochrosite, Sapphire (all colors), Shiva Lingam, Sodalite


Obsidian (Black and Snowflake), Rhodonite




Diopside, Prasiolite, Stilbite, Variscite


Enjoy peaceful sleep:
Chrysoprase, Howlite, Opal (Green), Shungite, Super Seven

Heal sleep disorders:
Aventurine (Green and Pink), Charoite, Muscovite

Maintain healthy sleep habits:
Idocrase, Sodalite, Tiger Iron, Tourmaline (Green)

See also Dreams


Agate (Tree), Amber, Apatite (all colors), Aventurine (Yellow), Hiddenite, Moonstone (all varieties), Opal (Blue and Yellow), Rhodochrosite, Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Thulite


Agate (Moss), Apophyllite, Aragonite (Blue), Buddstone, Calcite (Orange), Fluorite (all colors), Jasper (Kambamba), Petrified Wood, Preseli, Smoky Quartz, Stromatolite,


Aragonite (Brown and Red), Calcite (Orange), Chlorite Quartz, Jasper (Desert), Opal (Green), Peridot, Ruby Iolite, Selenite, Zoisite

Stamina (emotional/mental)

Agate (Fire), Calcite (Honey), Dumortierite, Jasper (Desert), Vanadinite


Be strong and brave:
Amazonite, Aragonite (Brown and Red), Aventurine (Green), Bloodstone, Charoite, Dragonstone, Garnet (all varieties), Jasper (Kambamba, Leopardskin and Red), Ruby, Thulite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red)

Be strong and resilient:
Agate (Moss), Bloodstone, Buddstone, Charoite, Galena, Hematite, Jasper (Ocean, Rainforest and Red), Onyx, Petrified Wood, Rhodonite, Stromatolite, Variscite

Doing what needs to be done: Bloodstone, Bronzite, Jade (Green), Jasper (Bumblebee and Red), Quartz (Tangerine), Sardonyx

Survive a difficult time:
Agate (Tree), Amazonite, Cat’s Eye, Citrine, Pyrite, Quartz (Strawberry and Whiskey), Rhodonite, Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Topaz (Blue), Zoisite


Handling extreme stress:
Opal (Pink and White), Zoisite

Handling long-term stress:
Indigo Gabbro, Jade (Black and Blue), Petalite

Sooth and release emotional stress:
Calcite (Honey), Danburite, Hawk’s Eye, Larimar, Magnesite, Moonstone (all varieties), Obsidian (Apache Tear and Snowflake), Tourmaline (Black)

Sooth and release mental stress:
Agate (Blue Lace and Dendritic), Danburite


Dumortierite, Pietersite


Barite, Sodalite


Agate (Moss), Pietersite


Chalcedony (Pink), Morganite, Rhodochrosite, Rose Quartz


Abstract thinking:
Calcite (Blue), Chalcedony (Blue and Chrome), Dumortierite

Being open to new ideas:
Bismuth, Bornite, Chalcedony (Blue), Chalcopyrite, Chrysoberyl, Citron Chrysoprase, Cradle of Humankind, Fluorite (all colors), Garnet (Andradite and Hessonite), Jade (Purple), Labradorite (Golden), Larvikite, Magnesite, Moonstone (Black), Pietersite, Ruby Iolite, Selenite, Super Seven, Unakite

Clear thinking:
Amethyst, Apophyllite, Calcite (Orange), Fluorite (Blue), Garnet (Almandine), Kyanite, Muscovite, Opal (White), Quartz (Blue)

Common Sense:
Agate (Apricot), Carnelian, Coral (Blue and Red), Fluorite (all colors), Fuchsite, Garnet (Almandine, Grossularite), Jet, Larvikite, Moonstone Tourmaline, Sapphire (all colors), Sodalite (Sunset), Stromatolite (Mary Ellen), Tiger’s Eye (Gold and Red), Vanadinite

Complex thinking:
Agate (Gray), Barite, Celestite, Chalcedony (Blue), Citron Chrysoprase, Diopside, Galena, Jade (Green), Larvikite, Quartz (Clear), Topaz (Blue)

Creative thinking:
Agate (Botswana), Larimar, Picasso Marble, Quartz (Whiskey), Rhodonite, Sapphire (Yellow), Vanadinite

Critical thinking:
Agate (Gray), Azurite, Fluorite (Yellow), Garnet (Hessonite), Muscovite, Obsidian (Snowflake), Sapphire (all colors)

Holistic thinking:
Fuchsite, Galena, Obsidian (Mahogany), Ruby Fuchsite, Super Seven

Logical thinking:
Agate (Apricot and Turritella), Amethyst, Apophyllite, Azurite, Bornite, Chalcedony (Chrome), Chalcopyrite, Chiastolite, Galena, Jade (all colors), Jasper (Yellow), Moonstone Tourmaline, Onyx, Prasiolite, Prehnite, Ruby Iolite, Sodalite, Sodalite (Sunset), Stichtite, Tanzanite, Tiger Iron, Tourmaline (Green)

Barite, Iolite, Larimar, Stromatolite, Sunstone, Tourmaline (Green),

Quick thinking:

Seeing the “big picture”:
Barite, Chrysanthemum Stone, Hematite, Jasper (Mookaite and Picture), Obsidian (Snowflake), Pietersite

Slowing down and thinking things through:
Agate (Turritella), Moonstone (Black), Petrified Wood, Stilbite

Stopping repetitive thoughts:
Amethyst (Brandberg), Calcite (Blue), Fuchsite, Jasper (Kambamba), Tourmaline (Black)

Think for yourself:
Charoite, Cinabrite, Zoisite

See also Analytical Abilities, Organization


Emotionally Tired:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Apatite (all colors), Citrine, Epidote, Obsidian (Apache Tear), Prehnite Epidote, Quartz (Snow), Tanzanite, Turquoise

Mentally Tired:
Peacock Ore, Variscite

Aragonite (Brown), Citron Chrysoprase, Jade (all colors), Kunzite, Magnesite

Chrysocolla, Jade (Green), Jasper (Desert), Petalite

*See also Peace, Serenity


Be protected from further trauma:

Heal from emotional trauma:
Amazonite, Calcite (Mangano), Carnelian, Chalcedony (Blue), Jade (Black), Jasper (Kambamba), Kyanite, Larvikite, Morganite, Nuummite, Obsidian (Apache Tear and Rainbow), Quartz (Lavender and Girasol), Rhodochrosite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Sand Dollar Fossil, Serpentine, Tektite, Tiger’s Eye (Red)

Support during traumatic situations:
Chrysoberyl, Obsidian (Apache Tear, Black and Snowflake), Rhodonite, Stichtite, Tanzanite (Prairie)

*See also Abuse, Baggage, PTSD


Trust other people:
Agatized Coral, Chalcedony (Pink), Chlorite Quartz, Opal (Blue), Quartz (Blue), Rhodochrosite, Rhodonite

Trust yourself:
Agate (Crazy Lace), Carnelian, Labradorite (Golden), Prehnite Epidote, Sodalite


Act and speak with integrity:
Aquamarine, Jaguar Stone, Jasper (Mookaite, Red and Yellow), Sardonyx, Serpentine, Shattuckite

Be honest with others:
Azurite, Calcite (Mangano), Cat’s Eye, Jaguar Stone, Jasper (Mookaite), Quartz (Girasol), Rhodochrosite, Seraphinite, Topaz (Blue), Turquoise (Green),

Be honest with yourself:
Agate (Botswana and Gray), Aventurine (Red), Epidote, Hematite, Jade (Black), Jaguar Stone, Jasper (Mookaite), Quartz (Girasol and Tangerine), Ruby Iolite, Selenite, Topaz (Blue)

*See also Discernment

Unconscious mind

Apatite (Green), Jade (Black), Larvikite, Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Ruby Iolite, Sodalite

*See also Beliefs


Agate (Botswana), Thulite


Agate (Tree), Ametrine, Chalcedony (Pink), Chrysocolla, Jade (Black, Blue and Green), Opal (Pink), Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Ruby Iolite, Tanzanite

Victim Mentality

Agate (Dendritic), Amazonite, Amethyst, Apatite (Green), Apophyllite, Calcite (Blue), Cinabrite, Dioptase, Fuchsite, Indigo Gabbro, Jasper (Ocean and Red), Quartz (Clear, Girasol and Snow), Ruby, Ruby Fuchsite, Sunstone, Thulite


Daring to be vulnerable:
Agate (Turritella), Carnelian, Moonstone (all varieties), Morganite

Support when you feel vulnerable:
Galena, Rhodochrosite


Agate (Gray and Turritella), Apophyllite, Aventurine (Pink), Calcite (Green and Mangano), Chalcedony (Pink), Chlorite Quartz, Eudialyte, Hematite, Jasper (Desert and Yellow), Obsidian (Mahogany), Quartz (Tangerine), Shattuckite, Thulite, Vanadinite


Act wisely:
Amethyst, Barite, Bismuth, Chlorite Quartz, Chrysoberyl, Copper, Dragonstone, Fluorite (all colors), Iolite, Larvikite, Opal (White), Prasiolite, Quartz (Clear), Sapphire (all colors), Tanzanite

Be Wise:
Amethyst, Bismuth, Chlorite Quartz, Fuchsite, Jasper (Mookaite), Moonstone (Black), Petrified Wood, Sapphire (all colors), Serpentine, Topaz (all colors)

Gain wisdom:
Buddstone, Fuchsite, Jade (Green), Jasper (Kambamba, Mookaite and Ocean), Moonstone (Black), Petrified Wood, Sapphire (all colors), Turquoise

Love wisely:
Emerald, Morganite, Rhodochrosite, Rose Quartz, Sugilite

Speak wisely:
Obsidian (Silver Sheen), Sapphire (Blue), Shattuckite, Sodalite, Tanzanite


Release current worries:
Agate (Gray), Auralite 23, Chalcedony (Pink), Charoite, Lepidolite, Tourmaline (Black)

Worry less:
Aragonite (Red), Chalcedony (Pink), Emerald, Petrified Palm Wood, Quartz (Girasol), Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Tourmaline (Black)